Carla Rockmore has 1.3 million followers on TikTok and her own fashion line, but there was a time when she was just another carpool mom in North Dallas, wondering what happened to her dreams. “It was challenging,” she says. “The guard at school would tell me I couldn’t idle the car in line while waiting to pick up my kids. What are you talking about? It’s 110 degrees!”
A Montreal native, Rockmore enjoyed a globe-trotting early career, leaving fashion school in Toronto for a couture house in Amsterdam. After returning to Canada, she toggled between corporate and boutique gigs, but motherhood meant slowing down. In 2012, her family moved to Dallas so her husband, Michael Stitt, could become CEO of the menswear brand Haggar Clothing, but Rockmore struggled to find industry work in Texas.
Fashion is about transformation, though, and Rockmore underwent a dramatic one. In March 2020, she was in India working to launch her own jewelry line when the pandemic hit, and she had to come home. Frustrated and looking for escape under quarantine, she started making videos in her closet, part practical stylist advice, part creative riff. She was a natural on camera, with her dark spiraling hair and outsize personality, trying on outfits that ranged from classy to wacky. “It was a convergence of my education and talent, my need to be in front of a stage and a void in the market,” she says. She became a social media phenomenon.
Architectural Digest has featured the closet in her Preston Hollow home, a two-story Narnia of color, spangle and swish so expansive it includes a spiral staircase and fireplace. But the real lure of her videos is a 50-something woman taking delight in the art of dressing up. “Our media don’t show us so many examples of women this age who know who they are and clearly like it,” New York Times Magazine said about Rockmore.
Now 58, Rockmore has a line of clothes on her website as well as through QVC. Many of her videos these days feature Ivy, the 21-year-old daughter whose gender transition became part of the tale, bringing new meaning to Rockmore’s TikTok slogan of self-expression through fashion. (Her 24-year-old son, Eli, helps behind the scenes.) I spoke with Rockmore over the phone, where she was as charming as she is in her videos.
“Fashion matters, because it’s a declaration of how you’re feeling without words,” says Carla Rockmore, who has a clothing line on QVC and her own website. Stewart Cohen
This is a first for me. In researching the clothes on your website, I actually bought the wrap shirt dress in marigold. I haven’t even started this interview, and I’m already out $55.
Ooh, you did? I love it! That dress is sort of the ethos of my design, where clothing is your canvas, and jewelry and accessories are your paint. You can dress it up however you want. I think color is one of my fortes, because my mom was a painter. Proportion, color and shape were dinner conversation.
I’m not much of a trend person. I’m more like, “I love it, now I’m going to wear versions of it for the rest of my life.”
How do you describe Dallas to people who have never been here?
Dallas is a strange juxtaposition. On the good side, you have some of the nicest people in the world. Being a Northeastern girl, I was completely floored when I moved to a place where people strike up conversations in line at the coffee shop. I kept looking over my shoulder thinking, What’s happening? What’s the ulterior motive? But it never came. They’re just genuinely nice.
The downside is that every strip mall looks exactly the same. I once got lost driving around a strip mall in Plano because I thought I was in Preston Hollow. Same Chico’s, same Starbucks. And everyone drives everywhere. I once tried to walk a single block, from Elements on Lovers near the Tollway to my chiropractor across the street, and while I was walking along the underpass, a woman pulled over and asked, “Are you OK, dear?” I said, “I’m just walking,” and she looked at me like I’d completely lost my mind.
How do you describe Dallas fashion?
Hidden. There’s incredible fashion here, but it doesn’t announce itself. It’s not going to smack you in the face, and I think that’s because Dallas isn’t a walking city. I’m always floored when I go to Forty Five Ten or to the downtown Neiman’s. Fashion here is a destination. You have to go to the restaurant, the party, the bar, and when you do — you will see it.
And no matter where I am, I could be going to the doctor for a physical, if I’m wearing a great pair of shoes, another woman will inevitably stop me and say, “Those shoes! Where did you get them?” That’s a kind of sisterhood. In New York, nobody ever asks about your shoes.
You went viral for putting outfits together, something others might find frivolous. Can you make the pitch that fashion matters?
Fashion matters, because it’s a declaration of how you’re feeling without words. It’s also a barometer of what’s going on in the world. I find fashion history so fascinating, why certain pieces of clothing were adopted at certain times.
In the 1910s, hobble skirts restricted women’s movement so completely that in cities like New York and Vancouver, they lowered the streetcars to allow women to get in and out. By mid-century, the story had flipped: Cars and fenders echoed the streamlined silhouette of the pencil skirt popularized by Christian Dior. From hoop skirts to hobble hems to pencil skirts, fashion has always shaped how we move, what we build and how the world makes room for us.
The closet gets used as a metaphor for repression, staying “in the closet,” but your closet has been an engine of self-discovery. Eventually, this became true in your own family, too. Can you talk about how Ivy started joining you in the videos?
Ivy was there from the beginning, because I was doing 10-minute videos on YouTube for my girlfriends up in Canada. I had 91 followers, and I was happy about that! The only reason I blew up was because Ivy said, let’s take it down to a minute and put this on TikTok.
Then Ivy came to me crying one day. Actually, we were in the closet. She said, “I don’t think I’m gay. I think I’m trans.” I felt so bad for her, because she said, “I’m so tired of coming out, Mom. I’m so tired of not being who I am.” At that point, I still naively thought it was a choice, and I was so afraid she was choosing a harder path. But I quickly decided, we’re going to support, full-force. About a week later, she and I did our first video together, because I wanted her to feel not only accepted by her family but also pretty, feminine — all those qualities she’d been craving for the first 17 years of her life. I wanted her to catch up to herself.
I thought, I don’t know if there are a lot of other parents in this situation, but maybe the benefit of my platform is we can show a “normal” family — then again, what’s normal? — modeling what it’s like to accept your child no matter who they are. Sometimes I feel like that’s the whole reason I went viral. Not for my fashion, not for my self-expression. For hers.
Akheem Mesidor, Edge, Miami
Pass rush has been an issue since the Micah Parsons trade. The Rashan Gary trade helped, but Dallas still needs an injection of talent. Akheem Mesidor fits here because his body size allows for some versatility inside and out, something DC Christian Parker utilizes. Mesidor is also a high-motor player with a deep bag of pass rush moves.
His last season at Miami was full of disruption in the offensive backfield and he shows an all-around game, not just a bend-around-the-edge pass rusher. Yes, he’s a little older than you’d like in a rookie (25), but his motor, pass rush toolbox, and ability to play the run matches up with a need and makes him a quality pick at number 20.
The City of Dallas Office of Community Police Oversight is hosting a Public Safety Response Symposium to connect residents with public safety leaders. Here’s how to participate on May 9.
The Dallas Police Department posted to social media about the event on Friday afternoon. The post states, “Join public safety leaders for an inside look at how emergency and non-emergency calls are handled and how resources are deployed across Dallas.”
The symposium will be held at the Briscoe Carpenter Livestock Center, 1403 Washington St., fro 11 a.m.-noon on May 9. Doors open at 9:30 a.m. Light breakfast and refreshments will be provided.
Topics for the symposium include:
There will also be a community Q&A forum where residents can engage directly with public safety leaders. Moderation will be provided.
Dallas Police Chief Daniel C. Comeaux will offer the opening remarks. Featured speakers include 911 Communications Center Assistant Director Robert Uribe; Major of Police Anthony Greer; 311 Senior Outreach Specialist Stephen Walker; and Emergency Management & Crisis Response Director Kevin Oden.
When it comes to parking: Enter through Gate 2 and drive straight to the Pan Am Gate, and continue to the Briscoe Center (located on the left).
RSVP for the Public Safety Response Symposium here.
On an evening in early March, Dallas Stars general manager Jim Nill stepped up to a podium for a news conference. The National Hockey League’s trade deadline had passed hours earlier, and here, at the American Airlines Center, was his chance to publicly reflect on the strategy he had followed. Wearing a green tie beneath a black overcoat, he lowered his mustache toward the mike and said: “I’ve been a bad GM here the last three years.”
The assorted media members gave him quizzical looks. Maybe they were surprised by Nill’s willingness to hold himself accountable. More likely, they were surprised because he was wrong.
Thirteen years into his tenure with the Stars (his contract was recently extended through 2028), the team is heading to the playoffs, which start tomorrow, with a 50–20–12 record and good odds to win the Stanley Cup. In the seasons that ended in 2023, 2024, and 2025—the period in which Nill apparently claimed he was a “bad GM”—he won the NHL’s Jim Gregory General Manager of the Year Award, the first “three-peat” in the award’s sixteen-year history. One of his captains, Jamie Benn, calls him “an incredible human being”; veteran forward Matt Duchene says he’d “run through a wall” for Nill.
Nill has a reputation for being right. Last season, for example, he splurged on an eight-year, $96 million contract for elite forward Mikko Rantanen. This season he made no big-news moves. Last season he fired the Stars’ highly regarded head coach, Pete DeBoer. This season he brought back Glen Gulutzan, a coach he’d fired more than a decade ago. These choices have so far all panned out—in both years, the Stars have been championship contenders—which we can’t chalk up to luck. Nill has been a winner for far too long.
Nill’s journey to Dallas started almost seven decades ago, in a small town in Canada. Born in 1958, he was raised in Hanna, a prairie town in Alberta (population around 2,600). Nill says he had a “great family life, out in the countryside, on the farm.” He grew up a Boston Bruins fan; Bobby Orr was his idol. Nill says he remembers sitting among fellow teenage students while listening with rapt attention to a radio broadcast of the 1972 Summit Series hockey tournament, in which Canada beat the Soviet Union and its star goalie, Vladislav Tretiak.
Nill was a talented hockey player, and he took the typical route for a promising Canadian prospect: junior league, followed by Canadian major junior hockey (similar in level to NCAA Division I) as a member of Alberta’s Medicine Hat Tigers. In his third and final season with that team, he put up 47 goals and served as team captain, after which he was picked in the NHL amateur draft by the St. Louis Blues. But he deferred his professional debut to play for the Canadian national team at the 1980 Olympics. There, in Lake Placid, New York, he went from a relative unknown to a national hero after scoring a goal against the Soviet Union, getting a shot past none other than Tretiak.
Nill joined the Blues in 1982—in St. Louis he met a woman named Bekki, and by 1984 the two were married—but months after his debut, the team traded him to the Vancouver Canucks. There, in Canada, he befriended an Ontarian defenseman named Joe McDonnell. That year the Canucks went from a losing record during the season to their first Stanley Cup Final, thanks in part to a double-overtime goal from Nill in the semifinals. (They lost to the New York Islanders.)
But Nill didn’t really distinguish himself in the sport until he stopped playing it. He spent two seasons with the Canucks, a season with the Bruins, three with the Winnipeg Jets, and two with the Detroit Red Wings before his on-ice career wound down. By 1991, he’d gotten a job as a scout with the NHL’s new expansion team, the Ottawa Senators.
Nill quickly made a difference in Ottawa, expanding the Senators’ scouting operations into Europe to hunt for overlooked players skating around obscure foreign rinks. His knack for turning mediocre franchises into champions made itself known after he returned to the Red Wings in 1994 as head scout. (He was joined in the scouting department by McDonnell, who’d ended his NHL career in 1986.) At the time, the Red Wings hadn’t won a Stanley Cup since 1955. Aided by talent acquired under Nill’s aegis—undervalued players like Kirk Maltby, Tomas Holmström, and Pavel Datsyuk, plus big-time stars like Dominik Hašek and Henrik Zetterberg—they won championships in 1997, 1998, 2002, and 2008. “A lot of the success we had in Detroit, I attribute to Jimmy Nill,” says then–Red Wings GM Ken Holland.
The themes that came to define Nill’s past few decades took shape during those Detroit years. One was winning; another was illness. In 1999, after the Red Wings’ second championship, Bekki was diagnosed with breast cancer, which she eventually beat through chemotherapy and surgery. Then, in 2010, she got sick again; her daily diet was often reduced to a handful of blueberries. She was eventually diagnosed with incurable stage IV cancer, which had spread to her liver, ribs, and other bones. She was given only a few months to live. McDonnell and his wife, Dawn, continued making their regular two-and-a-half-hour drives from Ontario to Michigan for dinners at the Nill household. Bekki says she was “preparing to . . .” She trails off. “End. I really was ready to go at that point. You never really want to leave, but I couldn’t have lived with the pain.”
But chemotherapy alleviated her symptoms beyond anyone’s expectations. She remembers a personal triumph: gaining the strength to walk ten houses down the street. Her mentality shifted, from accepting death to thinking, “I’m going to fight until it’s my last breath.” Today, fifteen years after she received that terminal diagnosis, she attends Stars games and dotes on the grandchildren she never thought she’d meet.
After Nill’s nineteenth season in the Red Wings’ front office—Detroit qualified for the playoffs in all of them—the Stars began their search for a new GM. The team’s president and CEO at the time, Jim Lites, says he conducted only one interview. Nill received the offer, and Bekki, who had been praying for Jim and his career at her weekly church service, encouraged him to accept. (“She was even more excited than me,” he says.)
With McDonnell as his scouting aide-de-camp, Nill sought to rescue the Dallas Stars from recent financial collapse—in 2009, Stars owner Tom Hicks’s private equity firm, Hicks Sports Group, defaulted on roughly $525 million in loans—by sticking to their strategy: building the roster through underrated players who had potential. And, as in Detroit, it worked. In 2015, Nill and McDonnell grabbed Finnish forward Roope Hintz, who became a three-time 30-goal scorer. In the 2017 draft, McDonnell convinced Nill to trade up in order to take a risk on goaltender Jake Oettinger late in the first round, shortly after taking Finnish defenseman Miro Heiskanen. Both became All-Stars. Other NHL teams shied away from forward Jason Robertson (over concerns about his skating) that year, but McDonnell saw past his supposed faults and suggested Nill sign him; in 2021, McDonnell similarly recommended that Nill draft Wyatt Johnston, whom few other scouts had seen play in person. This season, Dallas was one of only two NHL teams with two 40-goal scorers: Robertson and Johnston.
Coach Gulutzan says Nill puts “an emphasis on character” when signing players; Robertson says he implores his team to “buy into a certain philosophy,” which seems to have something to do with taking the obligations that management and the players have to each other seriously. Last season, Stars player Duchene was worried that he’d be released to clear cap space for Rantanen’s contract. A father of three in his mid-thirties, he feared he’d have to uproot his life and end his career with another team. But moments after Dallas’s anticlimactic playoff exit, Nill assured Duchene’s wife, Ashley, that the team would figure out a way to keep her husband on the roster. Days later, Nill signed Duchene for another four years. “That’s the kind of stuff he does,” Duchene says. “He understands there’s a player on and off the ice.”
The same philosophy came into play last season when Nill fired DeBoer after the coach publicly criticized Oettinger following that playoff loss—Nill had no patience for a public blame game. Fans and analysts thought it bizarre that Nill then replaced DeBoer with Gulutzan, whom he’d canned twelve years earlier. But Nill, in character, seemed to justify the move on the grounds of personal growth. “He’s taken the right path,” Nill said. “I thought he was ready for it.” Apparently he was. Gulutzan coached Dallas to the third-most wins in the NHL this season, and a championship—the Stars’ second ever, if it happens—is in sight. (The team’s opening playoff series is against the Minnesota Wild.)
Nill says he wants his name etched on another trophy, but whether or not he gets it, he’s navigated his life into a kind of triumphant equilibrium. His decades-long partnership with McDonnell is atypical in the cutthroat world of professional sports, and Bekki continues to defy what she was told was a death sentence. She takes oral treatments twice daily and reports for an hours-long chemotherapy infusion every 21 days; Jim typically sits by her side for the duration. And when Dallas hosts its first playoff game this weekend, before Bekki takes her seat, she’ll keep up a tradition: handing out little plastic bags of home-baked mini muffins to arena staffers and their families. Often, they’re blueberry.
Nill attributes the responsibility for his track record in hockey to “the great people I’ve had around me, and my family.” Perhaps that’s the only insight into his mind we’ll get. It appears to be the truth.
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