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Earlier than she was shot within the abdomen at Saugus Excessive College, Mia Tretta volunteered at a Los Angeles meals financial institution yearly round Thanksgiving.

On Nov. 14, 2019, within the minutes earlier than a bullet from a ghost gun hit her, Mia was on the telephone along with her mother, Tiffany Shepis-Tretta. They had been attempting to determine a day Mia might skip faculty to pack packing containers of meals with out lacking a take a look at. She was strolling into class after being dropped off by her grandmother on the Santa Clarita campus.

So carefree, Tiffany thinks now, remembering her daughter as a freshman. So onerous to suppose how small the issues had been.

Seconds after Mia hung up, a fellow scholar pulled a .45 caliber semiautomatic — produced from a package offered by a still-operating web enterprise in Chula Vista — and fired into the quad.

He killed two college students, together with Mia’s greatest buddy Dominic Blackwell, and wounded three earlier than taking his personal life. Damage and dazed, Mia ran right into a classroom.

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College students stroll to a reunification space after a gunman opened fireplace at Saugus Excessive in November 2019.

(Brian van der Brug / Los Angeles Instances)

Most of us barely keep in mind the Saugus Excessive capturing, headline information when it occurred three years in the past. And why would we? There have been many extra faculty shootings since, and lots of of acts of gun violence in California and throughout the nation this 12 months alone. The Gun Violence Archive places the quantity at greater than 600 to this point in 2022 — together with 21 lifeless in Uvalde, Texas, and 10 gunned down in a grocery retailer in Buffalo, N.Y.

Colorado Springs, Colo., was the brand new headline, 5 lifeless Saturday night time in an LGBTQ membership. Then Tuesday night time introduced one other horror. Seven folks lifeless in a Virginia Walmart, together with the gunman, who used his last shot on himself.

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Are you able to even title any of the others? Do you keep in mind in April when a gunman wounded 10 in a New York subway automotive? Or Could when an indignant man killed one and wounded 4 on the Irvine Taiwanese Presbyterian Church in Laguna Woods?

Or June in Oklahoma when yet one more armed man killed 5 at a medical heart and left extra with “non-life threatening accidents,” which is absolutely only a chilly and careless approach of claiming welcome to a lifetime of trauma, each for the victims and those that love them.

“You’ll be able to’t wait to care till it occurs to you,” Mia advised me Tuesday. And if telling her story, driving that time dwelling, will get the eye of only one particular person, it’s well worth the salt-in-the-wound ache of digging up the main points, she mentioned.

“On the fee that gun violence is occurring now, everybody goes to know any person, all people goes to have gun violence contact them,” she mentioned. “The entire world is hurting. All of those shootings occurring over and again and again is tough for me. However its additionally so extremely onerous for our complete nation.”

Gov. Gavin Newsom during a news conference at Santa Monica College on July 22, 2022.

Gov. Gavin Newsom wipes a tear after considering of his personal daughter when gun violence survivor Mia Tretta, left, advised her story beforehe signed Senate Invoice 1327, gun laws modeled after Texas’ abortion ban, into regulation at Santa Monica School on July 22. Tretta was wounded and her greatest buddy was killed within the 2019 capturing at Saugus Excessive College.

(Genaro Molina / Los Angeles Instances)

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She’s a senior now, nonetheless at Saugus Excessive, however spends a lot of her time as a gun-sense advocate with organizations together with College students Demand Motion. These previous few weeks, with the shootings in Colorado and Virginia, the strain of a vacation meant to underscore gratefulness and the three-year anniversary of the Saugus capturing, have been onerous — for Mia’s complete household.

“At the start within the grand scheme of something like this, we’re fortunate as a result of she’s right here. She’s with us,” Tiffany mentioned. “These are the issues you concentrate on when the vacations come. I take into consideration [Dominic’s] household.”

Mia worries folks don’t even keep in mind him — the 14-year-old child with curly hair who “wasn’t afraid of something,” Tiffany mentioned. He and Mia had an 8-minute lengthy secret handshake they’d do each time they met, Mia mentioned.

A man wears a shirt emblazoned with the name of a boy killed in the Saugus High shooting.

Folks collect at Central Park in Santa Clarita to recollect these killed and wounded within the Saugus Excessive College capturing.

(Carolyn Cole / Los Angeles Instances)

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He wore a SpongeBob T-shirt virtually on daily basis. The primary time he met Tiffany in a division retailer, he “shook my hand very firmly and mentioned, ‘I simply need you to know I’m Mia’s boyfriend,’ then ran off laughing,” Tiffany mentioned.

Mia liked him and he’s gone, killed as they walked collectively, simply one other day till it wasn’t.

However as a lot as we mourn the lifeless, the dwelling matter too. Gun violence is a horrible, tragic second for many who die. It’s a lifetime of ache for many who stay.

Tiffany remembers the morning Mia was shot, probably not being concerned at the same time as she heard one thing was occurring at the highschool. She determined to drive over and test. On the way in which, she acquired a textual content from a quantity she didn’t acknowledge.

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“Hello mother, I don’t know should you’ve heard, however there was a capturing. Inform Max to chew together with his mouth closed,” it learn. Max is Mia’s little brother, in first grade when the capturing occurred and an open-mouth eater on the dinner desk, a lot to his massive sister’s dismay.

Tiffany realized one thing was improper and known as the quantity. A lot of what occurred is a blur, however she remembers asking the one who answered if every part was OK, and being advised Mia had been shot. “Do you need to discuss to her?” they requested.

Gun control activist Mia Tretta.

Gun management activist Mia Tretta.

(Brian van der Brug / Los Angeles Instances)

Mia sounded “as regular as may be,” Tiffany mentioned. “Thank God for shock and adrenaline. I really feel like, had she sounded in ache, I might have crumbled.”

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By some means Tiffany known as her husband, Sean, and so they arrived on the faculty at virtually the identical time, with Mia being wheeled out on a gurney. There was a helicopter journey to the trauma heart, and although the bullet missed a significant artery by millimeters, “we knew fairly shortly that she was going to be OK,” she mentioned.

“However when you must inform a baby that their greatest buddy was killed, you immediately see the innocence drain from them,” she mentioned.

Mia nonetheless has bodily issues from being shot — she’ll have one other process in coming months. However the emotional restoration is tougher.

“For a very long time, I used to be very, very numb,” Mia mentioned. “Trauma is a curler coaster. It doesn’t finish and it’s not static.”

Tiffany felt the shock too and nonetheless does.

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“You attempt to stay slightly bit tougher, you attempt to love extra, you attempt to not maintain grudges on belongings you would have prior to now,” she mentioned. “As dad and mom you bought to maintain going. You bought to choose up and maintain it collectively. You’ll crumble in the future when they’re married and have their very own youngsters. It’s robust.”

A family gathers at a memorial outside Saugus High School in 2019.

A household gathers at a memorial to Gracie Anne Muehlberger and Dominic Blackwell exterior Saugus Excessive College in 2019.

(Kent Nishimura / Los Angeles Instances)

One of many hardest components is how political shootings have turn into. In case your baby is in a automotive accident, Tiffany factors out, the one response is sympathy and kindness.

“You say my baby was shot at a faculty capturing, all people has an opinion on that,” Tiffany mentioned. “It’s the one factor that’s polarized, and it’s actually unfair. You’re speaking about youngsters’ lives and children’ security.”

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Mia has a service canine now, a golden retriever named Randy, who goes to high school along with her and may wake her up from nightmares. She has PTSD. Popping balloons startle her, and Max is aware of higher than to run up and scare her, as he appreciated to do earlier than the capturing.

However Mia additionally found one thing about her ache.

“I noticed actually early on that I had the identical consolation sitting in mattress crying as I did going out and attempting to alter one thing,” she mentioned.

Mia travels the nation talking on gun rights. Not way back, she was at the White House for an occasion with President Biden. And he or she voted for the primary time a couple of weeks in the past — all candidates she trusts to share her values. Just lately, after the varsity capturing in Uvalde, she held a walkout at Saugus Excessive. Within the conservative enclave of Santa Clarita, it wasn’t properly acquired.

“Folks had been holding up Trump flags and throwing issues at us,” she mentioned. “It’s a whitewashing, sort of attempting to fake this didn’t occur in ‘Awesometown,’” as one native neighborhood dubbed itself.

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It’s Mia’s perseverance that offers me hope.

I’m pretty sure the so-called adults aren’t fixing America’s gun drawback anytime quickly. Even in California, with a few of the strictest gun legal guidelines within the nation, we’re confronted with the stone wall of those that genuinely consider they may sometime want their weapons to overthrow our authorities, and any try and curb gun rights dangers that mangled notion of patriotism.

However the youngsters have an opportunity.

“Era Z goes to eliminate them,” Tiffany mentioned, talking of the politicians who consider their self-serving worship of the 2nd Modification is extra necessary than our kids.

“I see it not simply with my daughter,” she mentioned. “I see it when she goes and meets with different teams of younger [activists]. They notice the numerous drawback we’ve got with weapons on this county. I’ve loads of hope for them, and it’s unlucky that we’ve needed to burn all of it down for them to construct it again up.”

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Mia doesn’t need her complete life to be about weapons. She’s 18 years previous and making use of to varsity. She goals of Stanford, and so they’d be fortunate to have her. And he or she and her mother are again to volunteering at Thanksgiving, this 12 months making meals for these dwelling in motels.

However Mia is on this struggle to win it, identical to so lots of her friends who “take no s—,” as Tiffany places it.

“These are change makers,” Mia says of different younger survivors she’s met.

“They’re combating for the very same factor,” she mentioned, regardless of in the event that they deal with local weather change, reproductive rights or any of the opposite issues that appear so insurmountable and contentions — to “be secure and be completely happy and be liked and never be scared.”

“It’s not an excessive amount of to ask,” she mentioned.

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No, Mia, it’s not. I want we might win this struggle for you, go away you with a greater world. Or at the very least one the place massacres don’t come and go from our consciousness like thieves, stealing a little bit of our means to really feel every time.

However I’m grateful you’re not ready for us to catch up. And I’m grateful that for all you’ve misplaced, you haven’t given up on us.

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Trump demands Biden 'drug test,' rips 'radical' RFK Jr. in bid to 'rebellious bunch' at NRA

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Former President Trump fired up supporters at the National Rifle Association’s Annual Meeting in Texas on Saturday, calling for President Biden to take a “drug test,” putting “radical” Robert F. Kennedy Jr. on blast and encouraging gun enthusiasts to get out and vote.

The crowd at the Kay Bailey Hutchison Convention Center in Dallas roared as Trump received the NRA’s endorsement before he took the stage.

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Trump thanked the “great patriots” for the endorsements, but reprimanded the “rebellious bunch” for not voting.

“But one thing I’ll say, and I say it as friends, we’ve got to get gun owners to vote because you know what? I don’t know what it is. Perhaps it’s a form of rebellion because you’re a rebellious people, aren’t you?,” Trump said. “But gun owners don’t vote. What is that all about?”

“If gun owners would vote, we would swamp them at levels that nobody’s ever seen before,” he said. “So, I think you’re a rebellious bunch. So let’s be rebellious and vote this time.”

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Former President Donald Trump speaks during the NRA ILA Leadership Forum at the National Rifle Association (NRA) Annual Meeting & Exhibits at the Kay Bailey Hutchison Convention Center, Saturday, in Dallas. (Justin Sullivan/Getty Images)

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The NRA endorsed former President Trump on Saturday. (Justin Sullivan/Getty Images)

‘Radical’ RFK Jr.

Trump turned his attention to Independent presidential candidate Robert F. Kennedy Jr., telling NRA-supporters to not “waste your vote” and that he is a part of the “radical left.”

“RFK, Jr. — I call him Junior by the way — he’s radical left. Don’t think about it. Don’t waste your vote,” Trump said. “We need a conservative person with common sense. This guy is radical left who destroyed New York.”

“Actually, he’s a disaster. He reminds you of this fly that’s driving me crazy up here,” said Trump, who swatted at a fly that flitted around the stage. “This fly is brutal. I don’t like flies!”

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Former President Donald Trump blasted Robert F. Kennedy Jr. as a “disaster” and part of the “radical left.” (Getty Images)

Trump said that RFK Jr. had “no policy for anything.”

“But RFK Jr. calls you a terrorist group. You know, he calls you a terrorist group,” Trump said. “[You] can’t vote for him. You can’t. You know, somebody said, well, they like his policy on vaccines the other day. He said, no, no, he’ll go for the vaccine. He’s nice. He’s got no policy or anything. He’s radical left. He always has been.”

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“We can’t waste any votes,” he added. “We have to make sure we win.”

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Former President Trump said that President Biden was as “high as a kite” during his State of the Union address in March. (Jacquelyn Martin/AP/Bloomberg via Getty Images)

‘High as a kite’

The Republican Party’s presumptive presidential nominee set his sights on President Biden, beginning with the usual jabs at Biden’s cognitive ability, and saying that Biden was as “high as a kite” during his State of the Union address in March. 

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“Now, he did that State of the Union the other day. He was high as a kite,” Trump said. “So, I think we should go for drug tests on the debate. Yeah, we’re going to call for drug tests.”

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Former President Trump speaks during the NRA ILA Leadership Forum at the National Rifle Association (NRA) Annual Meeting in Dallas on Saturday. (Justin Sullivan/Getty Images)

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Earlier Saturday, Trump’s campaign and the Republican National Committee announced the creation of a new “Gun Owners for Trump” coalition that includes gun rights activists and individuals in the firearms’ industry.

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South Dakota Gov. Kristi Noem, under fire for shooting dog, describes making 'hard decisions' at California GOP gathering

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South Dakota Gov. Kristi Noem, once considered a potential 2024 running mate for former President Trump, received a warm reception at a gathering of California Republicans on Saturday just weeks after facing a harsh public backlash after she admitted killing her “untrainable” hunting dog.

Noem, a champion of gun rights, warned of the perils facing the nation and her conservative leadership in the rural state, including her refusal to impose government shutdowns during the COVID-19 pandemic.

“We have an election year coming up here in 2024 where I don’t think it’s about Republicans and Democrats anymore. I don’t think it’s about political parties,” Noem told more than 200 people at a luncheon at the California Republican Party convention in Burlingame, just south of San Francisco. “I think it is about people who love America and people who are trying to destroy it.”

She did not directly mention the incident with her dog that she wrote about in her book, “No Going Back: The Truth on What’s Wrong With Politics and How We Move America Forward,” which came out this month.

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But Noem alluded to the controversy over her decision to kill a 14-month-old wire-haired pointer named Cricket in a gravel pit because it was a poor hunting dog and killed some farm chickens.

“Listen, I have a book that has come out. You may have heard a little bit about it,” Noem said to laughter. “I guarantee you if you listen to the media, you have not heard the truth. So I would recommend you read it.”

Lunch attendees received a copy of the book as part of their ticket purchase; Noem signed copies and posed for selfies after her remarks. Tickets ranged from $300 to $575 with the top price including an invitation to a reception with Noem.

The tale of Cricket was the talk of many convention attendees.

“We find out Gov. Kristi Noem’s coming to keynote our convention and everybody’s very excited. She’s dynamic, engaging, probably on the VP shortlist,” said a delegate from Contra Costa County, who requested anonymity because of potential scorn if he publicly discussed the incident. “And four days later, we find out the dog-killing story. And everybody’s like, ‘Uhhh?’ And even Trump’s not a dog guy, but even he was like, ‘She had a rough week.’”

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South Dakota Gov. Kristi Noem speaks at the California Republican Party Spring Convention on Saturday in Burlingame, Calif.

(Loren Elliot / For The Times)

He added that the upheaval was indicative of the hard luck of California Republicans.

Noem focused her remarks on her leadership of South Dakota, particularly during the pandemic, as well as her decision to send the state’s National Guard to the U.S.-Mexico border in Texas to stem the influx of immigrants entering the country without authorization. She repeated warnings about drug cartels using Native American tribal lands in her state to commit crimes, remarks that have led some tribes to ban Noem from their reservations.

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“The cartels have moved into the middle of our country. They have set up on my tribal reservations and they were proliferating their drug trafficking, their human trafficking, they’re raping our children and our women right in South Dakota, and they’re doing it protected by the federal government because the federal government refuses to bring law and order to those communities and keep people safe,” Noem said.

She said she has no jurisdiction since the tribal lands are a sovereign government and blamed President Biden for failing to intervene.

Noem, who had reportedly been on Trump’s shortlist of potential running mates but dropped off before the book controversy, also praised the former president as a genuine American, unlike most politicians.

“What did Donald Trump do when he announced that he was going to run for president? The guy comes down a golden escalator,” she said. “I was shocked by it. I was like, ‘This is gonna be the worst campaign plan I’ve ever seen in my entire life.’”

After quipping that her state has two escalators in it and that most South Dakotans couldn’t relate to an escalator, Noem argued that the moment showed Trump’s authenticity.

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“What was so fantastic about it was the fact that he wasn’t pretending to be something that he was not,” she said. “He was exactly who he was.”

State Republican Party delegate Anna Bryson, a former school board member from Orange County who attended the luncheon, said she was most impressed by Noem’s financial acumen, especially her efforts to reduce taxes.

South Dakota Gov. Kristi Noem speaks at the California Republican Party Spring Convention.

South Dakota Gov. Kristi Noem speaks at the California Republican Party Spring Convention on Saturday in Burlingame, Calif.

(Loren Elliot / For The Times)

“As a person who’s driven by who’s going to make the best economy for everybody, I was very impressed and I wasn’t really prepared to be impressed,” Bryson said, recounting her experience being elected to the Capistrano Unified School District amidst a budget deficit of more than $200 million and the need to avoid bankruptcy. “So I have to give her great kudos for the sound financial policies she’s putting in place.”

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She gave her a pass on the dog controversy because Noem is a rancher, as are members of Bryson’s family.

“When you’re speaking to the average American whose dogs are really important in their families, like they’re members of their family … it’s a different world,” she added. “I’m sure she regrets it. Who wouldn’t? But with all of us in politics, if you’ve been elected you have had a moment where we didn’t say what we exactly meant, right?”

More than 800 delegates, alternates and guests attended the convention at the Hyatt Regency San Francisco Airport in Burlingame. The last time the state GOP met in Burlingame was in 2016, when protesters clashed with police outside because of an appearance by then-presidential candidate Trump. There were no protests Saturday afternoon outside the hotel, although several police officers were stationed around the building.

Times staff writer Anabel Sosa contributed to this report.

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London Mayor Sadiq Khan branded former President Trump a racist, a sexist and a homophobe as he urged his own Labour Party to do more to “call him out.”

Ahead of the presidential election in November, the U.K.’s Labour Party appears to be working to strengthen its relationship with Republicans should Trump take back the White House. However, Khan, a fierce Trump critic, insists the party “shouldn’t be literally rolling out a red carpet for a state visit.”

Khan’s remarks on the former president came after foreign affairs chief David Lammy appeared to extend an olive branch earlier this month while insisting Trump is “often misunderstood” when it comes to policy and “wants Europeans to do more to ensure a better defended Europe.”

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Former President Trump, left, and London Mayor Sadiq Khan (Getty Images)

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Rejecting Lammy’s position, Khan told Politico, “I’m quite clear, I understand, on Trump. He’s a racist. He’s a sexist. He’s a homophobe. And it’s very important, particularly when you’ve got a special relationship, that you treat them as a best mate.

“If my best mate was a racist, or a sexist or a homophobe, I’d call him out, and I’d explain to him why those views are wrong,” the London mayor added.

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Khan, who was recently re-elected to a third term leading Great Britain’s most populous city, told the outlet he worries “about a Donald Trump presidency.”

“You know, I’ve been speaking to governors from America. I’ve been speaking to mayors from America. Of course, we’ll have a relationship, whoever the president is. But we shouldn’t be literally rolling out a red carpet for a state visit,” he said. 

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“It’s really important that we, of course, have good relations with Democrats and Republicans. But I lost count of the amount of Republicans I’ve spoken to who are also worried about a Trump presidency.”

Khan and Trump have a history of feuding and not seeing eye to eye on a number of topics, including immigration.

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London Mayor Sadiq Khan leaves Millbank Studios after conducting media interviews Aug. 29, 2023, in London. (Carl Court/Getty Images)

In 2019, prior to his arrival in London for a state visit, Trump referred to Khan as a “stone cold loser” who is “very dumb.”

Responding to those comments in his interview with Politico, Khan said: “I’ve got more latitude as a mayor to just to say what I feel about Trump, and I make this point. He called me a ‘stone cold loser.’ I’ve won three. How many has he won?”

Khan’s remarks come as the Labour Party is expected to return to power after 14 years in a U.K. general election that will take place in the coming months.

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Lammy, who has criticized Trump in the past as a “neo-Nazi-sympathizing sociopath,” recently traveled to Washington, D.C., where he met with a number of Democrats and several Trump allies, including Ohio GOP Sen. JD Vance and South Carolina GOP Sen. Lindsey Graham.

“Were his words in office shocking? Yes, they were,” Lammy told Politico of the former president. “Would we have used them? No. But U.S. spending on European defense actually grew under President Trump, as did the defense spending of the wider alliance during his tenure.”

Lammy also argued Trump helped matters by pushing European nations to increase their own defense spending.

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Foreign affairs chief David Lammy said earlier this month Trump is “often misunderstood” when it comes to policy. (Anthony Devlin/Bloomberg via Getty Images)

“When he began his campaign, only four countries were spending their 2% of GDP. The number was 10 by the time he left office. And it is 18 today.” Lammy added.

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The Associated Press contributed to this report.

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