As she delivered her testimony, she was direct, poised, and articulate. At this point, she’s had years of practiceadvocating for herself and teenagers like her. It’s a role she never asked for but feels a duty to fill.
Iris became an advocatewhen she was just 10 years old, with written testimony that didn’t identify her by name, her mother, Amy Manzelli, told the Globe. Eventually, her parents allowed Iris to identify herself publicly.
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“I was just, like, ready to do something,” Iris said from a perch on the couch during an interview at the family’s home.
Iris came out as transgender to her family when she was 7, although her mom said Iris had been giving indications she was a girl from the time she was able to string a sentence together. As a young child, Manzelli said, Iris would ask Santa to turn her into a girl for Christmas.
After Iris came out, she was finally able tolive day-to-day as a girl. She wearsgirls clothes, uses the girls bathroom at school, and joined the girls tennis team at school, although she didn’t make the softball team.
Iris Turmelle posed for a portrait at her home in Pembroke, N.H. Turmelle has become an outspoken advocate, fighting against anti-LGBTQ+ legislation in New Hampshire. Erin Clark/Globe Staff
This legislative session, Iris has been to the State House to testify against multiple bills, including one that would bar transgender girls like her from playing on girls sports teams in grades 5-12 (House Bill 1205), could block her from locker rooms or bathrooms (House Bill 396), and wouldrequire parental notification for her and her classmates to learn aboutgender or gender expression (House Bill 1312). Another bill, House Bill 619, would prevent minors from receiving genital gender reassignment surgery, and it would prevent doctors from providing referrals for the procedure, which they say is exceedingly rare.
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Proponents of banning transgender girls from sports say it’s unfair for them to play on the same team because they have a biological advantage. They point to the increased strength men have after going through male puberty, which they believe will allow people assigned male at birth to overtake women in sports.
All four bills are headed to Governor Chris Sununu’s desk. Sununu has indicated he supports barring transgender girls from girlssports teams, although he hasn’t directly said if he will sign the bill. If he does, Manzelli said, her family will pursue a legal challenge.
“I’m just petrified,” Manzelli said. “I’ve heard rumors that some of them are going to be vetoed, but unless all of them are vetoed, it doesn’t really matter. … None of them are OK.”Waiting to learn what will happen, Iris said, feels like “just suffering.”
In March, Sununu said it is dangerous for transgender girls to play on girlssports teams. “I fundamentally don’t believe that biological boys should be competing in girls sports,” he said.
He has stood firm on that position in recent interviews, evenafter hearing stories from transgender athletes in New Hampshire.
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“This bill is not about the individual,” Sununu said during a June 27interview with WMUR.
“It’s about the system as a whole. It’s about fairness, about safety,” he said. “You’ve seen all across the country, other stories of, you know, state champions, biological boys becoming state champions. That affects scholarships. That affects the fairness of competition.”
In April, New Hampshire’s child advocate Cassandra Sanchez spoke against dozens of bills that she said would harm LGBTQ+ youth, including the effort to bar transgender girls from girlssports teams.
“We’re all about equity and fairness, and all children should have an opportunity,” she said. She doesn’t see transgender athletes “trying to get ahead or hurt others by engaging in sports. They’re trying to have a normalized childhood.”
She said many children find a sense of belonging by playing team sports.Sara Tirrell, whose daughter Parker is transgenderand plays soccer, agreed.
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“The goal is to be part of the team,” Tirrell said.
Parker Tirrell posed for a portrait at her home in Plymouth, N.H. Parker has become an outspoken advocate, fighting against anti-LGBTQ+ legislation in New Hampshire.Erin Clark/Globe Staff
“Parker’s team in particular won zero games last year. She was not the kid that was bowling anybody over because that’s not who she is,” she said.
Parker stood in the crowd at the Legislative Office Building during the press conference in late April next to her dad, Zach. Tears ran down her face as she listened to her mom publicly explain how she tried to comfort her daughter after a classmate called her expletives and slurs and said she should kill herself.
“As her mother, I remain committed to fostering an environment where she can live authentically and unapologetically,” Tirrell said. That has meant two years of making the hourlong drive to Concord from her home in Plymouth to testify against bills that would impact her family.
In an interview, Tirrell said she first came to the State House in 2023 to testify against a bill that would have added gender-affirming health care to the definition of child abuse.
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This year, with her family’s support, Parker decided to testify for the first time, speaking against the effort to bar transgender girls from girls sports teams.
Parker has played soccer since she was 4, and she said it’s become a big part of her identity. She hasplayed every position: defense, midfield, and striker. Soccer is howshe met many of her friends. She said it would be “devastating” if the bill becomes law. Joining the boys’soccer team, she said, is not an option, and neither is usingthe men’s bathroom or locker room.
Advocating for herself and others has been difficult for the 15-year-old.
“I feel like I shouldn’t have to do it because it seems like a lot for me specifically to have to do as a freshman in high school still trying to figure things out school-wise,” she said. “I don’t want to be, but it’s something important that I have to do.”
“It’s been a lot for me,” Parker said, “just having to deal with all these people trying to dictate how my life is supposed to go.”
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Parker is hoping to play soccer again with her team in the fall. But, for now, her future is an open question — one that both she and Iris are waiting for the governor to resolve.
This year, with her family’s support, Parker Tirrell decided to testify for the first time, speaking against the effort to bar transgender girls from girls sports teams.Erin Clark/Globe Staff
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The election for the NH Electric Cooperative (NHEC) Board of Directors is happening now. I urge readers to watch for the ballots coming in the mail or go on to their NHEC SmartHub account and vote there.
The NHEC Board is made up of only 11 members. There are two incumbents up for re-election and four new candidates to choose from. You can vote for three new board members this year and bring about significant change at NHEC.
The board decides where our electricity comes from, what member-side programs NHEC offers and how proactive the New Hampshire Electric Co-op is for supporting local renewable energy. As co-founder of the Plymouth Area Renewable Energy Initiative, a co-op member and someone who pays close attention to how NHEC is governed, I believe the NHEC Board would benefit from new voices, experiences and leadership styles. The NHEC as a utility has the potential to be an even stronger leader when it comes to doing what is right for the environment and keeping rates affordable.
If you get your electricity from the co-op, then you have a say in how it is run. I urge you to vote for three genuine, thoughtful and technology forward-thinking leaders: Brad Harkavy of Campton, Laurel Boivin of Lee and Tom Randell of Moultonborough. They will make an excellent addition to the Board.
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Be sure to mail your ballot back so it arrives by June 10 or jump on your SmartHub account and vote right now.
This is a story not about scenic views, wildflowers, animals, people met, towns encountered, but some reality, at least mine, of things we often do not talk about in the hiking community. In retrospect, the first 1,800+ miles headed north on my thru hike of the Appalachian Trail (AT) were certainly taxing and replete with various challenges that I had to work through, learn from, and make adjustments. However, realistically not much on the AT at that point, and per my years of previous hiking experiences, prepared me mentally for what I would encounter in New Hampshire.
Welcome to idyllic New Hampshire.
More idyllic New Hampshire. Not so fast, Mr. Hiker guy, can’t do the same moves as before.
New Hampshire Hiking
Frankly, New Hampshire is a beast and I do mean that in a positive and respectful manner. The hiking in New Hampshire is so technically difficult from other areas within the U.S. and abroad that I have hiked. It seemed like I was constantly bouldering, scrambling, using handholds, fording high, swift creeks/rivers, navigating massive descents with no “guardrails,” or in May encountering hour-by-hour changing weather (e.g., snow, hail, sleet, rain, wind).
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A granite face. Down we go.
Crazy Descent
When I hike, I do carry with me a healthy dose of fear, which I find to be positive. For me, fear operates as a navigating tool related to risks, focusing my mind, calming my emotional state, or strengthening my thought processes/decision-making.
On a few AT sections early on in New Hampshire, such as the northbound massive descent (Beaver Brook Cascades) down from Mount Moosilauke in a snow and sleet storm, my revolve and fear-cooping mechanisms seemed to become a negative version of “scared” with every step given the large amounts of this winter’s snow and ice, slippery rock faces, micro spikes and/or trial runners not adhering well to granite, and so on. In my mind, and probably quite true given the weather and trail conditions, danger of a fall, injury, or worse appeared to be at every turn and step. A 3+ mile very steep descent turned into a 3 to 4 hour mental stress test that I am pretty sure I “failed.”
Snow and ice up and down the mountain.
I was warned.
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Rising Waters
The next day, I hiked about 17 miles from Kinsman Notch to Franconia Notch, and it had rained a lot in that section of the AT during the previous two days. During my ascent of Mount Kinsman, it continued to rain and rain. I must of forded 6 to 8 rivers, or maybe just the same river that amount of times, but as the day wore on, the water levels in these river(s) kept rising. I am almost 6’3” tall and by the end of the hiking day, I was fording river water mid- to upper-thigh and in super swift conditions. Again, like the previous Mousilauke experience, my positive fear started to become something more negative and mentally paralyzing thinking about the inherent risk involved in fording a deep, swift river late in the day and with no other option to get to the other side of a flooded out AT.
Various extremely sketchy river fords.
A Reset
After these experiences, and frankly losing my confidence, I took a few days off to level set, so I stayed at the wonderful Notch Hostel. To date, the Notch is my favorite hostel on the trail. The staff were so welcoming, warm, and always available. The hostel was super clean and friendly and had very fair expectations related to how hikers et al. should live there as well as treat the hostel environment. After at reset, I went back out and did a 27-mile hike in a few days of the famed Franconia Ridge over Mounts Lafayette and Lincoln, South Twin Mountain, and others. This was a very challenging hike, but one that I needed to do to gain my nerve back and reestablish mentally my healthy level of fear instead of hiking scared per possible ‘what if’ scenarios of serious injury and beyond.
Moving into Part II
So, in the end, it was fine to lose my nerve for a time and be scared in certain hiking situations. The key for me was in recognizing the latter state, trying to mentally review the circumstances, and learn from these experiences. Then, I needed to physically go back out in challenging conditions and hike. I feel really good about New Hampshire and what is to come on the AT. My part II, if you will, will be informed from my part I. I can’t wait for more of New Hampshire.
A new day rising.
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With over 100 sculptures woven into the mountainside, the Andres Institute of Art is New England’s largest outdoor sculpture park.
Along wooded trails and scenic overlooks, visitors encounter a rotating collection of works that blend art and nature, turning a simple hike into an immersive gallery experience