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Therapists reveal how wildfire survivors can help their children cope with trauma

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Therapists say survivors of the California wildfires can help their children heal from the trauma of leaving everything they know behind by continuing on with their daily routines, providing an empathetic ear and reinforcing their safety. 

While fire crews continue to combat the wildfires consuming Los Angeles County, officials as of Saturday said at least 30 people remain missing while two additional deaths brought the toll to 27.

“Many children are facing the devastation of the fires in California. As parents and caregivers, it’s crucial to support children during this crisis, giving them space to share what they saw, heard, and felt,” Dr. Cindy Davis, clinical director of Positive Development in Pasadena, Calif., told Fox News Digital. “Encourage them to share their experiences and be open to any form of communication. Some may repeat the same story, while others may prefer not to talk much. Let them choose when and how to share. Consider your child’s experience with the disaster — did they evacuate, see homes burning, or witness fear? Use these clues to guide your conversations. For younger children specifically, pay attention to the themes in their play, as it often reflects their concerns and helps them process their feelings.” 

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Dr. Gail Saltz, associate professor of psychiatry at the New York Presbyterian Hospital Weill Cornell School of Medicine, explained that the fires have caused “tremendous and ongoing loss” for both adults and children. 

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Burned out classic cars sit like ghosts after being destroyed by wildfire, Altadena, California, Friday, January 10, 2025. (Derek Shook for Fox News Digital)

“The most important thing for children now is to make them feel that they and you, their parents, are safe,” she advised. “Parents should often explain, ’We are safe because’ or ‘here is our safety plan’ or ‘we need to start our safety plan and once we get there, I can answer all your questions.’ Expect and answer repeated concerns from children about safety of themselves and their loved ones. Try to do nice things together demonstrating that it feels safe for all of you, like playing a game. Remind them no matter what you have lost, the most important thing is that you are together and safe. Home is, and will be, where you are.” 

One way to help children feel safe amid the chaos of relocating is letting them express their preferences about what they can control, such as a new room, school or activity, therapist Samantha Silverman, LCSW, told Fox News Digital. 

“Plan activities together to explore the new city and make it feel like home,” Silverman suggested. “Maintain consistent daily routines to provide a sense of stability and security. Incorporate comforting traditions or activities that remind them of home, such as family meals or bedtime rituals. Help your child acclimate by exploring the new city together, visiting local parks, schools or libraries. Encourage participation in community or extracurricular activities to help them make new friends and build a sense of belonging.”

La Jolla, Calif., child psychiatrist Josh Feder, M.D., who explained children “need extra support” during this time, advised parents to make sure their children are in a safe place with clean air and cautioned against watching news of the fires around children.

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“Use alerts on your phone to get important updates,” he said. “It’s important to tell the truth but not make it too scary. For example, ‘Our house burned down but we are safe now.’ Our job is to protect kids and make them feel as safe as we can!” 

 

A helicopter drops water on the Palisades Fire in Mandeville Canyon, Friday, Jan. 10, 2025, in Los Angeles.  (Ethan Swope/AP)

Saltz explained that while the wildfires make for a stressful situation for both adults and children, they can make it through the hardship.  

“Human capacity for resilience is such that the majority of these people will eventually make their way through these losses to recoup their lives, but the more coping tools and support they can receive, the more likely that is and the less painful it will be,” she said. 

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Fox News Digital’s Stephen Sorace contributed to this report. 

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5 vehicles hit exercise equipment on I-15 near Arizona-Utah border

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SALT LAKE CITY (ABC4) — Five vehicles collided with a piece of exercise equipment on I-15 near the Arizona-Utah border on Friday, according to Beaver Dam/Littlefield Fire Department.

At around 7:30 p.m. on Jan. 9, fire personnel responded to an incident involving five vehicles on I-15 Southbound at Mile Marker 17. Crews arrived on scene to find “slightly used exercise equipment” in the middle of the road, officials said.

Five vehicles collided with a piece of exercise equipment on I-15 near the Arizona-Utah border on Friday. (Courtesy: Beaver Dam/Littlefield Fire Department)

A total of 14 people were involved in the collisions, though only one was taken to the hospital, St. George Regional, as a result.

“Please drive defensively; Keep your eyes on the road,” a social media post from Beaver Dam/Littlefield Fire states.

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HIGHLIGHT | Lawrence Dots a Pass to Washington for a 6-Yard TD

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DE Dawuane Smoot, LB Foyesade Oluokun, TE Brenton Strange, S Eric Murray, and S Antonio Johnson  speak with the media after practice on Thursday ahead of the Wild Card Matchup vs. Bills.

0:00 – 2:28 – DE Dawuane Smoot

2:29 – 6:24 – LB Foyesade Oluokun

6:25 – 9:25 – TE Brenton Strange

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Wyoming Man Donates Llama Ranch As Sanctuary For Veterans, First Responders

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Llama expert, Navy veteran, and former commercial abalone diver Al Ellis imagined his 207-acre Sublette County ranch would one day become a sanctuary for veterans. 

That vision is now taking shape after Ellis passed the deed for his property to the Boulder Crest Foundation just before Christmas. 

“We want other people to enjoy this space — people who deserve it, people who we owe something to,” Ellis told Cowboy State Daily from the living room of his two-story log home.

“Llamas are the reason this house is here,” the 84-year-old said. “We visualized being old here and wheeling over to the big windows to watch the llamas.”

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That’s what his wife, Sondra, enjoyed. She died in August after a lengthy health battle. 

Al Ellis is a Navy veteran and former commercial abalone diver who built a successful pack llama business in Western Wyoming. He’s donated his 207-acre Boulder llama ranch as a sanctuary for veterans and first responders. (Courtesy Photo)

Butterfly Moments

Ellis talks about his life as a series of “butterfly moments” — events that happened at the perfect time to chart a remarkable path that led him to the underwater reefs off the California coast to the snowy peaks of the Rocky Mountains.

His story begins in San Francisco, where he spent much of his childhood in and around the bodega and produce stand his parents ran on the corner of Mission Street. 

“By the time you’re 8, you can take your orange crate down the street,” he said about scrounging for stuff to put in their discarded wooden crates. 

“Even in ’Frisco we got to be pretty feral,” he said.

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Ellis learned to fish when he was 6. His aunt taught him. 

That was a butterfly moment.

Ellis enlisted in the Navy when he was 17, a role he downplays today because he served during peace time between the Korean and Vietnam wars. 

He worked on a salvage ship. Once, the ship ran up on a reef 1,500 miles from Brisbane, Australia. 

Divers on the ship worked for days to blast the reef to free the ship. 

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When Ellis wasn’t standing watch, he paddled around on the reef and watched the divers work.

Another butterfly moment. 

Watching the Navy divers blast the reef to free the ship, he developed an intense curiosity about diving. 

Ellis found his way into competitive spearfishing, even then “an old, obscure sport,” he said. 

Al Ellis is a Navy veteran and former commercial abalone diver who built a successful pack llama business in Western Wyoming. He’s donated his 207-acre Boulder llama ranch as a sanctuary for veterans and first responders.
Al Ellis is a Navy veteran and former commercial abalone diver who built a successful pack llama business in Western Wyoming. He’s donated his 207-acre Boulder llama ranch as a sanctuary for veterans and first responders. (Kate Meadows, Cowboy State Daily)

Abalone And Urchins

A serendipitous meeting of a competitor who nearly speared the prizewinning fish that Ellis claimed at a meet off the coast of Santa Barbara led Ellis into the niche industry of abalone hunting. 

Abalone — large marine snails with ear-shaped shells — were once prized along the California coast, and their meat is considered a delicacy. 

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Ellis and his business partner later opened their own abalone operation, finding ways for divers and processors to earn more for their work — but he missed diving. 

By the time Ellis got back into diving, the sea urchin industry was booming. 

“The timing was perfect to get into urchins,” he said. “I got good at it right at the time the price went up.”

Another butterfly moment.

He bought a fishery with an old freezer that had, during World War II, stored shark livers for their vitamin A. 

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He converted the fishery into a seafood restaurant named Andrea’s. 

When the California freeway claimed part of that property, he and his wife opened a bigger seafood joint closer to the water.

His wife continued to work there for nine years after Ellis retired from the diving industry and moved to Wyoming. 

Al Ellis is a Navy veteran and former commercial abalone diver who built a successful pack llama business in Western Wyoming. He’s donated his 207-acre Boulder llama ranch as a sanctuary for veterans and first responders.
Al Ellis is a Navy veteran and former commercial abalone diver who built a successful pack llama business in Western Wyoming. He’s donated his 207-acre Boulder llama ranch as a sanctuary for veterans and first responders. (Courtesy Photo)

Wyoming And Llamas

By 1982 when he was just 40, Ellis was ready to retire from diving. 

He and Sondra bought property on the Snake River near Jackson Hole. They had fallen in love with the country after visiting a friend in Alpine.

They bought some horses, then Ellis got a backpack and started exploring the Rocky Mountains. 

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That’s when an article about mountain pack llamas by outdoors writer Doyle Markham caught his attention. Markham operated Snake River Llamas in Idaho Falls.

“As soon as I read the article, I called him,” Ellis said.

He drove to Markham’s property and saw his llamas up close.

“Within five minutes of being on his property I told him I wanted one,” Ellis said. “He wrote the article, but it was his stud, Snake River Bandit, that lit the fire.”

Markham told Ellis he could get on a six-year waiting list for a weanling.

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“I was so hooked, I couldn’t wait six years,” Ellis told Cowboy State Daily.

What followed was a long and arduous process of learning where to find weanlings and how to separate those that would make good pack animals from those that would not.

Ellis acquired six pack llamas, bred them, and spent the next decade in the mountains with his beloved pack animals, guiding trips in the Wind River, Gros Ventre, Teton, and Wyoming mountain ranges. 

“It was unbelievable how many people on my trips had never seen a night sky,” Ellis said.

Al Ellis is a Navy veteran and former commercial abalone diver who built a successful pack llama business in Western Wyoming. He’s donated his 207-acre Boulder llama ranch as a sanctuary for veterans and first responders.
Al Ellis is a Navy veteran and former commercial abalone diver who built a successful pack llama business in Western Wyoming. He’s donated his 207-acre Boulder llama ranch as a sanctuary for veterans and first responders. (Kate Meadows, Cowboy State Daily)

Yup, They Spit

People would gather around the llamas at the trailheads, in awe and full of questions.

“The first question is always, ‘Do they spit?’” Ellis said. “Of course. Their spit is their first line of defense. But a well-raised llama won’t spit at a person.” 

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He learned after a chance meeting with Rod Eastman, the son of well-known wildlife photographer Gordon Eastman, that his llamas were perfect for wildlife filming. 

Ellis’ backcountry photography led to extended wilderness expeditions supported by his llamas.

By the time his herd had grown to more than 30 animals, Ellis was facing a tough choice. 

The 12 acres he owned on the Snake River was not enough to sustain his operation. He knew he had to sell the herd, stop breeding the animals, or move. 

He also knew he had an extremely valuable operation going. Llamas were in high demand, both as working pack animals and as show animals.

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“They’d hit the ground at a minimum of $5,000,” Ellis said, referring to a newborn llama’s worth at the time. 

Ellis said he also believed the type of llamas he bred were in danger. 

“It was really a mission for me,” he said. “I had to carry it on.”

Boulder Move

The Ellises bought a run-down cattle ranch in Boulder 12 miles south of Pinedale and sold their beloved property on the Snake River. 

The ranch in Boulder was an eyesore at the time, Ellis said. The ground looked like a moonscape, and it was a tough sell for Sondra.

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“I was enticing my wife from a 5,200-square-foot log home on the Snake River to come to a hell hole,” he said. 

He promised her that they would build a nice log home on the property eventually. First, though, they had to set up adequate facilities for the llamas.

The Ellises moved to Boulder in 1998, and by 2012 were caring for 200 llamas on the Boulder property. Fewer than half — 60 — were pack llamas. 

That summer, he was 70 and working on a broken foot. It was, he said, a wake-up call that it was time to be done. 

By then he had introduced thousands of people to his beloved llamas.

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Al Ellis is a Navy veteran and former commercial abalone diver who built a successful pack llama business in Western Wyoming. He’s donated his 207-acre Boulder llama ranch as a sanctuary for veterans and first responders.
Al Ellis is a Navy veteran and former commercial abalone diver who built a successful pack llama business in Western Wyoming. He’s donated his 207-acre Boulder llama ranch as a sanctuary for veterans and first responders. (Courtesy Photo)

Boulder Crest In Boulder

Fast-forward to summer 2025, a few months before Sondra died: another butterfly moment came. 

Ellis was watching TV when he came across Johnny “Joey” Jones, a co-host on the FOX News Channel’s “The Big Weekend Show.” 

Jones, a military veteran who had lost both his legs to a roadside bomb in Iraq, was talking about his New York Times bestseller “Behind the Badge: Answering the Call to Serve on America’s Homefront.”

“I really liked him,” Ellis said, adding that he decided to reach out to Jones. 

Gifting his 207-acre property to serve veterans and first responders was fresh on his mind. Perhaps Jones could give him some direction.

It was a long shot, Ellis knew. He tracked down Jones’ email online and fired off a note, doubtful anything would come of it.

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“But I’ll be damned, he saw it,” Ellis said.

Not only had Jones read Ellis’ email, he knew who could make that happen. 

Jones reached out to Ken Falke, a retired Navy bomb disposal specialist and co-founder and chairman of the Boulder Crest Foundation. 

Falke had met Jones at Bethesda Hospital in Washington, D.C., where he would often go to visit wounded soldiers. 

Jones completed Boulder Crest’s Warrior PATHH program, which focuses on transforming struggles into strength and thriving in the aftermath of trauma. PATHH stands for Progressive and Alternative Training for Helping Heroes.

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“As soon as I met him, it was like ‘wow,’” Falke told Cowboy State Daily. “I was a diver. He was a diver. I was in the Navy. He was in the navy. There was this really interesting connection.”

Another butterfly moment.

Llamas And Vets

Boulder marks the fourth Boulder Crest facility in the country, with others located outside Washington, D.C., and in Arizona and Texas.

“I think in Wyoming, we’re going to take a little different approach,” Falke said. 

Falke told Cowboy State Daily he has learned there’s a big push to help female veterans and rural veterans who struggle to get care. 

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Falke is also well aware that Wyoming has the largest veteran suicide rate per capita in the country.

“Our hope is to regionalize our services around Wyoming and Montana, Idaho and Utah,” he said.

In Boulder, llamas will be a significant part of the nonprofit’s operation. 

Ellis said he believes the llamas will especially benefit families of veterans and first responders, noting the animal’s innate ability to spread joy.

“Watching baby llamas play when they’re in a group is 100% contagious,” Ellis said.

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Al Ellis is a Navy veteran and former commercial abalone diver who built a successful pack llama business in Western Wyoming. He’s donated his 207-acre Boulder llama ranch as a sanctuary for veterans and first responders.
Al Ellis is a Navy veteran and former commercial abalone diver who built a successful pack llama business in Western Wyoming. He’s donated his 207-acre Boulder llama ranch as a sanctuary for veterans and first responders. (Kate Meadows, Cowboy State Daily)

Planning And Zoning Hurdles

The Boulder Crest Foundation will build a bunkhouse of sorts on the property for its Warrior PATHH program. 

For the property to function as Boulder Crest envisions, a special conditional use permit was required, allowing the property to operate as a guest ranch. 

That use permit was narrowly approved by the Sublette County Planning and Zoning Commission in December. 

The approval faced pushback and initially failed on a previous reading.

At a September Sublette County Commission meeting, six area residents voiced opposition to the property being zoned to operate as a guest ranch. 

According to the permit request staff report prepared by Sublette County Planning and Zoning Administrator Hayley Ruland, “Neighbors worried that once Boulder Crest assumes control, the operation could grow well beyond what is currently proposed. 

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“They fear future buildings and programs could shift the use toward a resort-like facility rather than a small guest ranch,” Ruland wrote.

The report also states that some residents “expressed concern about bringing trauma-affected individuals into a residential area without guaranteed on-site mental health professionals. 

“They worry this could increase demands on local law enforcement and emergency services.”

Others voiced high praise for Boulder Crest’s reputation and the potential for Ellis’ property to benefit veterans, first responders and their families for years to come. 

“I’m not religious,” Ellis told Cowboy State Daily, “but all these points come together. Boulder Crest could accept it and I could give it. It’s unbelievable.”

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Kate Meadows can be reached at kate@cowboystatedaily.com.



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