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In her new book Get the Picture, journalist Bianca Bosker explores why connecting with art sometimes feels harder than it has to be. Above, a visitor takes in paintings at The Royal Academy Summer Exhibition in London in 2010.

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In her new book Get the Picture, journalist Bianca Bosker explores why connecting with art sometimes feels harder than it has to be. Above, a visitor takes in paintings at The Royal Academy Summer Exhibition in London in 2010.

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When Bianca Bosker told people in the art world she’d be writing a tell-all about their confounding, exclusive ecosystem, “bad idea,” they responded.

“They didn’t come right out and threaten my safety or anything,” she writes in Get the Picture, “My reputation, well-being, and livelihood as a journalist —that, however, was another story.” Judging from the book’s recent reviews, she need not worry too much.

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Bosker’s motivation for writing the book was partly frustration. “I didn’t know how to have a meaningful experience of art and that bothered me,” she tells me, “But also like I think the art fiends that I got to know, it’s not just that they look at art differently. They behave sort of like they’ve accessed this trapdoor in their brains and I envied that.”

Get the Picture by Bianca Bosker

Other journalists might have relied on research and interviews. Bosker went gonzo. She spent five years immersed in the New York art scene, working as a gallery assistant and helping artists in their studios. After getting a license to be a security guard with the state of New York, she got a guard job at the Guggenheim.

Bosker didn’t necessarily set out to write a takedown of the art world, though the result is pretty much just that. She writes about the time a performance artist sat on her face. And recounts a conversation with a dealer who said her mere presence (he didn’t like her clothes) was “lowering my coolness.” It’s unvarnished, awkward and eye-opening.

Borderline hostile

“Working at galleries, I became initiated into the way that the art world wields strategic snobbery to keep people out. And I think it’s deliberate and I think it’s unnecessary,” says Bosker.

Take the wall texts you often see at art museums. While they might be well-intentioned, Bosker believes they’re part of an over-emphasis on context.

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“For the last 100 years or so, we’ve been told that what really matters about an artwork is the idea behind it.” Bosker says that “art connoisseurs” were very interested in “where an artist went to school, who owns her work, what gallery had shown it, who he slept with” and was surprised by “how little [time they] actually spent discussing the work itself.”

Of those wall labels, “I thought they were annoying, like borderline hostile … they just drove me crazy.”

At a recent visit to the Guggenheim, we saw one that included the phrase:

“…practice explores the liminal spaces of human consciousness…”

Bosker shudders. “If I had a dollar for every time someone in the art world used the word ‘liminal,’” she laughs. One artist she worked with told her, “‘Reading the wall labels is like you’re trying to have a conversation with the artwork, but someone keeps interrupting.’”

As a museum guard, Bosker occasionally took the matter into her own hands.

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“I would actually try and stand in front of the wall labels so that people wouldn’t just fall back on the approved interpretations. They would challenge themselves and really wrestle with their own eye, which is so strong,” she says.

Small galleries deliberately keep out the ‘schmoes

If museums make some people feel unwelcome, Bosker learned that small, contemporary art galleries can be even worse. One that we visited in downtown Manhattan was hard to find. That’s typical, Bosker explains.

She says a lot of galleries “deliberately … hide themselves from the general public … I worked for someone who referred to general public as ‘Joe Schmoes’ and I think there are a lot of ways to keep out the schmoes, and where you put your gallery is a big one.”

Now, to be fair, those galleries are in the business of selling art.

Gallery owner Robert Dimin likes that Bianca Bosker is unmasking “our opaque art world” with her new book Get the Picture.

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Rob Dimin, another gallery owner Bosker worked for, does not refer to the general public as “schmoes” but he does like that his new gallery is tucked away. It’s on the second floor of a building with just a small plaque by the entrance.

Dimin’s last gallery was a storefront. “You [were] more likely to get people that had no intention or idea about the art or really interested in the art, just maybe kind of stumbling in,” he says, “There [were] moments when we were on the street level that people would come in and just have phone conversations on rainy days because it was an open space.”

People walking into a gallery to get out of the rain aren’t usually interested in buying art. But Dimin admits that the art world is “opaque” and he’s glad Bosker is unmasking it. There are parts of it even he doesn’t understand.

“Even as an art dealer, it sometimes is confusing,” he says, “Like, why is X, Y and Z artists getting acquired by every museum and having these museum shows? What is challenging for a person like me who’s been in this business for 10 years, I can only imagine a person not within the industry having more challenges.”

How to have a meaningful experience with art

Intentionally confusing, elitist, cloistered. While Bosker’s new book likens the art world to a “country club,” she says her feelings about art itself haven’t been diminished.

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“Seeing artists in their studios agonize over the correct color blue, over … the physics of making something stick, lay and stay, really convinced me that everything we need to have a meaningful experience with art is right in front of us,” says Bosker.

Bianca Bosker takes a close look at a work by Julianne Swartz at the gallery Bienvenu Steinberg & J in New York. Bosker says it’s OK to “walk around a sculpture … just don’t touch it.”

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Bianca Bosker takes a close look at a work by Julianne Swartz at the gallery Bienvenu Steinberg & J in New York. Bosker says it’s OK to “walk around a sculpture … just don’t touch it.”

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Here are a few tips she has for readers looking to evade the snobbery:

Slow down

“My philosophy had always been when I went to a museum … a scorched earth approach to viewing. I was like, ‘You have to see everything. That is how you get your money’s worth.’” Bosker says “museum fatigue” is real and compares it to eating everything at an all you can eat buffet. “No wonder you feel a little ill at the end of it.”

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“If you find one work and you just spend your entire half hour, hour, hour and a half at that piece, you’ve done it. And I think that that can be oftentimes an even more meaningful experience.”

Find five things

“An artist that I spent time with encouraged me to, in front of an artwork, challenge yourself to notice five things. And those five things don’t have to be grandiose, like: ‘This is a commentary on masculinity in the Internet age.’ It could just be, you know, like this yellow makes me want to touch it.” Taking the time to notice those things will help viewers think about the choices an artist has made, Bosker believes.

“I think being around art ultimately helps us widen and expand our definition of what beauty is. And I think beauty … is that moment when our mind jumps the curb. It can feel uncomfortable, but it also is something that draws us to it. … It’s something that all of us need more of in our life. And art can be the gateway to finding more of it. It doesn’t have to happen with the traditionally beautiful artwork.”

Get as close to the source as possible

“What we see when we go to a museum is not necessarily the best that culture has to offer. … It’s the result of many decisions by flawed human beings. And one way to get around that is to widen your horizons. … Go to see art at art schools, go see art at the gallery in a garage and just kind of go close to the source.”

This story was edited for audio and digital by Rose Friedman. The web page was produced by Beth Novey.

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Author Julia Elliott won for her short story collection Hellions.

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Writer Julia Elliott has won this year’s Carol Shields Prize for Fiction for her short story collection Hellions. The award honors work by women and nonbinary authors in the U.S. and Canada.

Elliott, who also authored the novel The New and Improved Romie Futch and the short story collection The Wilds, is known for blending elements of Southern gothic horror, surrealism and fairy tale. Hellions, published in 2025, includes stories set against backdrops like a plague-stricken medieval convent, a feminist art colony, and small Southern towns.

“This eerie, eclectic, genre-leaping collection takes no half-measures; every sentence of Hellions crackles or crawls,” wrote the prize jury in a statement. “Here, human folly moves against a backdrop of horror and magic … But for all its wildness, there is tremendous control.”

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The prize, named after a Pulitzer Prize-winning novelist, awards $150,000 to one winner each year. Novels, short story collections, and graphic novels by women and nonbinary authors are eligible.

This year’s finalists included Quiara Alegría Hudes (The White Hot), Lee Lai (Cannon), Megha Majumdar (A Guardian and a Thief), and Sonya Walger (Lion). They will each receive $12,500.

The Carol Shields Prize went to writer Canisia Lubrin in 2025.

You can listen to actor Donna Lynne Champlin read Elliott’s story “Hellion” on the Death, Sex & Money podcast here.

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Cats: The Jellicle Ball” has received nine Tony nominations, including one for Qween Jean, the costume designer. Our chief fashion critic, Vanessa Friedman, joins our chief theater critic Helen Shaw to talk with Qween Jean and to uncover some of the show’s hidden references.

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Inside the all-masc lesbian and translesbian revue electrifying L.A. nightlife

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At around 1 in the morning at the Sassafras Saloon in Hollywood, four masc lesbians in cowboy hats and chaps were dancing on top of the bar while bartenders attempted to continue making espresso martinis beneath them.

One performer crawled into the crowd and between the spread legs of an audience member, licking the air between their thighs. Another wrapped a belt around their girlfriend’s neck while thrusting against her to Bon Jovi’s “You Give Love a Bad Name.” The ravenous audience, almost entirely women, fluttered dollar bills all around, while easily filling the saloon’s 300-person capacity.

Across Los Angeles, countless strip clubs and revue shows were unfolding at that same hour, though none quite like this and likely few provoking this level of frenzy. The night had all the riotous energy of a scene from “Coyote Ugly,” with the choreographed masculinity of “Magic Mike.” Playing on the latter’s name, this was the doing of Magic Mascs, an all-masc lesbian and translesbian revue, by sapphics for sapphics.

Skye Valentinez, from left, Alexa Legend, Daddii Syd and King Captain are members of Magic Mascs, an all-masc lesbian and translesbian collective, that started in February.

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“Our idea was to give lesbians what men get all the time at a strip club, but instead of just sitting around and singing ‘Pink Pony Club,’ actually going wild,” said group founder Daddii Syd, a.k.a. Syd Latimore.

The performers, self-described “daddies” — Daddii Syd, Alexa Legend, Skye Valentinez and King Captain — formed Magic Mascs in February. The performance at the Saloon was their third overall, but the group has already become an institution within lesbian nightlife in Los Angeles. They will make their debut during a Pride Month performance on Friday at Womxn Pride’s rooftop party in downtown L.A.

The members come from professional dance backgrounds. King Captain entered dance school at age 12 and taught dance for nearly a decade. Daddii Syd has danced since childhood. Alexa Legend spent years go-go dancing across clubs in the city before joining the troupe. Skye Valentinez, the baby of the group — cherub-faced, smiling through braces — is the newest to performing, though she steps into it naturally, exhibiting the same living, breathing caricature of masculinity as the rest of them.

“No one’s trying to be cisgender,” King Captain makes clear. “We’re not trying to be the kind of men who are born into and fed by patriarchy,” Daddii Syd added. “We’re redefining masculinity.”

King Captain gets their underwear stuffed with dollar bills from the crowd.

King Captain gets their underwear stuffed with dollar bills from the crowd.

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Magic Mascs’ success follows a broader trend of lesbians confidently stepping into masculinity before hungry eyes. In the past year, performative masc competitions have appeared across the country, with lesbians — hair slicked back and carabiners dangling from their Carhartt jeans — showing off in front of leering crowds. Magic Mascs feels like a more professionalized version of that phenomenon, less tongue-in-cheek — just tongue.

“We always knew there was a huge hunger for this,” Daddii Syd said.

Their first performance, in San Diego, sold out fast.

“I knew right away we were onto something special,” Daddii Syd said.

Videos of the troupe traveled far across sapphics’ algorithms, especially clips of King Captain, whose devoted fan base — known collectively as “The Castle” — make arduous trips just to see them in the flesh. One fan drove more than 20 hours from Dallas to San Diego to see Magic Mascs. Another sent an edible fruit bouquet from Australia.

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Backstage, every gesture from the troupe was ultra-confident. Captain, wearing briefs stuffed with a sock full of rice, talked to me with a leg cocked on the footrest of my stool. Daddii Syd, Alexa Legend and Skye Valentinez stood pelvis-forward, hands behind their heads, flexing ropey muscles. They loved the camera, eyeing it like prey while tipping the brims of their cowboy hats. (“You guys are like the modern-day Beatles,” our photographer said.)

King Captain gets the Hollywood crowd into a frenzy during a recent show.

King Captain gets the Hollywood crowd into a frenzy during a recent show.

Everything in the show revolved around their hips. The performers rolled and glided before delivering sudden, mechanical thrusts powerful enough to rattle nearby glasses. Their bodies were taut with effort and exaggerated lust. Daddii Syd performed with her girlfriend Jamie in matching plaid, not leaving much to the imagination as they licked whipped cream off each other.

Alexa Legend, who described herself as shy offstage, eventually stripped down to nipple pasties and a cowboy hat, firing confetti from her crotch into the crowd. King Captain swerved their hips like a powerful mechanical bull. “Oh, Captain, my captain,” someone in the crowd said, hand pressed dramatically to her forehead.

They paid particular attention to a woman in a wheelchair in the crowd — typical of their performances — asking if they could sit on the wheelchair. They received keen consent. “That was, um, very nice,” she told me after, still a little lost for words.

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“We’re huge on consent,” Daddii Syd said. At the start of the show, they told the crowd to cross their arms in a Wakanda Forever pose if they didn’t wish to be touched. They checked in constantly while moving through the crowd, leaning close to ask questions like, “Is this OK?” and “Anywhere you don’t like to be touched?”

Captain learned these habits through work in intimacy coordination and under the mentorship of Tonia Sina, among the first professional intimacy coordinators in Hollywood. That ethos of care extended beyond their interactions with the audience and into the way they interacted with one another offstage.

Performer King Captain of Magic Mascs take a tip from a fan.

“We want everyone in the crowd to feel gorgeous,” King Captain said before the recent show at Sassafras Saloon in Hollywood.

Performer King Captain, left, and Lauren Henson, a stage kitten for the group, perform together on the bar.

King Captain, left, and Lauren Henson, a stage kitten for the Magic Mascs, perform together on the bar.

Forming a sanctuary for themselves was just as important to the troupe as emboldening others’ desire. “It’s hard to find other masc friends,” Daddii Syd said. “Everybody’s weirdly competitive and trying to sabotage each other.” King Captain agreed, asking: “Why can’t we all be daddies at the same time?”

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Daddii Syd and King Captain, who are both in their 30s, had little butch representation or friendship growing up and they have now become something like father figures to Alexa Legend and Skye Valentinez, who are in their 20s.

“We have to protect each other,” King Captain said. “We have to look out for each other.”

Daddii Syd put her arm around Skye Valentinez and said: “Look at this beautiful baby we have.”

That tenderness carried straight into the night. There was a striking seriousness to the whole performance, which spanned from just past 10 p.m. to 2 a.m. Unlike a bachelorette party or the typical male revue, there was no giggling in the room, and no wink of camp from the performers. Here was a rare claim to unabashed public sapphic desire; it was given the scale and seriousness routinely afforded to heterosexual display, like the gleeful bravado of a man striding into Hooters.

By the end of the night at Sassafras Saloon, the performers had stripped down nearly to nothing, pouring water over themselves while the audience roared. The atmosphere felt like one of collective release, a recognition that masculinity and desire don’t belong only to men — that a group of four masc lesbians can be horny, inspire horniness and ultimately stir a hysteria that once greeted Channing Tatum or even the Beatles.

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It was the magnitude of the response that night at the Saloon, as on every other night they’ve performed, that’s inspiring their next moves: total domination in sum. The troupe is already planning a national tour through Florida, Dallas and Sacramento, though Daddii Syd’s ambitions extend much further.

“The idea,” she told me, “is to go global. Like a boy band.”

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