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Book Review: ‘The Woman Who Knew Everyone: The Power of Perle Mesta, Washington’s Most Famous Hostess,’ by Meryl Gordon

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Book Review: ‘The Woman Who Knew Everyone: The Power of Perle Mesta, Washington’s Most Famous Hostess,’ by Meryl Gordon

Perhaps as part of the subterfuge about her age, she often erased this chapter from her life story, preferring to identify with Oklahoma, where the family moved when she was 24, her mother died of flu and the grieving Mr. Skirvin built a grand eponymous hotel. Pearl briefly aspired to be an opera singer, which would deepen her relationship with Truman’s daughter, Margaret. For a while she chaperoned her sister, Marguerite, through a successful acting career.

Pearl met George Mesta, a 20-years-older Italian American steel magnate from Pittsburgh, during a dinner at the Waldorf Astoria Hotel in New York City. Their marriage lasted almost 10 years — “Oh, how I wanted children, but I just couldn’t,” she said — ending with his death of a heart attack and a pile of money for Pearl, soon to be (as it had sometimes been spelled on their travels to Europe) “Perle.”

With her siblings, she confronted her father’s shady accounting practices, and thanks to a female friend, she became an early advocate of the Equal Rights Amendment and blunt feminist instrument. For Mesta, life would indeed begin at 40, as a popular best seller of that era was titled. Most unusually for the subject of a biography, she’s approaching 70 well before the midpoint of this one, and you wonder how the following pages will ever be filled.

But then of course there is “Call Me Madam,” the 1950 Irving Berlin musical in which Ethel Merman starred as a thinly veiled version of Mesta, with a then-record $1 million in advance ticket sales and a lyric that would forever stick: “the hostess with the mostes’ on the ball.” (Watch the movie version for a quick infusion of daffy American midcentury optimism and the unexpectedly beautiful singing of the usually villainous George Sanders.) She was also said to be the inspiration for Dolly Harrison in Allen Drury’s 1959 novel “Advise and Consent.”

Extroversion was Mesta’s superpower, not introspection. “If you said intellectual integrity, I doubt if she’d know what you meant,” Cafritz sniffed. But her can-do could not be contained. On occasion she seems to exhaust even her biographer into mild syntactic blunder: “Anxious about her status, the sound of her ringing telephone was music to Perle’s ears” and the like.

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Book Review: ‘Trespassers at the Golden Gate,’ by Gary Krist

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There were always those who did not conform: Krist’s wide canvas is peopled with intriguing minor figures like Ah Toy, a Chinese immigrant sex worker; a French frog-catcher, Jeanne Bonnet, who fell afoul of restrictions on cross-dressing; and Mary Ellen Pleasant, a civil rights pioneer who fought to desegregate the city’s streetcars. But these individuals rarely had the means to bend the city to their own tastes and notions of justice.

And when one of the men in power — a married lawyer named Alexander Parker Crittenden — was brazenly killed by his lover, the younger, licentious, murderous woman became the scapegoat, bearing all the sins of the city.

Except for brief vignettes from the trial, Krist’s narrative does not return to the scene of the crime for more than 200 pages. This structure demands a fair amount of investment in people whose motives and morals are muddled, at best. Crittenden, his wife and his lover, Laura Fair, had all migrated to San Francisco from the antebellum South, and carried with them the prejudices of those origins: They were pro-slavery, anti-Lincoln and, in due course, Confederate sympathizers (a cause for which the Crittendens’ eldest son died). “Unfortunately,” as Krist puts it rather mildly, it was Crittenden who, while briefly serving in the California State Legislature, was responsible for writing a “notorious statute” banning the testimony of nonwhite defendants from admissibility in court.

These were people who benefited from the restrictive moral code of a “mature” Victorian city, even as they chafed at its constraints. Crittenden, who is described repeatedly as “restless” or “reckless,” did not amass a great deal of actual influence: His political ambitions were thwarted, and what money he earned ran through his hands like fool’s gold. Still, he moved around the country freely, enjoying, as his frustrated lover put it, “the man’s thousand privileges,” which included leaving his wife and children for months or years on end.

During one of those extended wanderings, in pursuit of the riches flowing out of Nevada’s silver mines, Crittenden met Fair, then a 26-year-old with a young daughter, running a boardinghouse with her mother. “Thrice married — twice divorced and once (somewhat suspiciously) widowed — the hotheaded and independent Fair refused to be fixed by the feminine clichés of her time. Amid the rampant speculation in precious metals, she amassed a substantial investment portfolio and occasionally lent her lover money.

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Inside the women’s hockey powerhouse led by ‘Miracle on Ice’ legend Mark Johnson

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Inside the women’s hockey powerhouse led by ‘Miracle on Ice’ legend Mark Johnson

MADISON, Wis. — Three hours before the Wisconsin Badgers were set to practice on a Tuesday afternoon in late January, the best coach in the history of women’s college hockey was telling a story about a deer.

“I’d like to get in the mindset of a deer,” Mark Johnson said during a coaches meeting inside the team offices at LaBahn Arena.

He talked for several minutes, trying to empathize with the deer that had jumped in front of his car — and then ran off — while Johnson was driving home from the rink a few days prior. He couldn’t quite figure out why the deer did what it did.

Johnson, 67, is always trying to see things from another perspective, whether it’s a deer on the road or the people around him.

“We’ve got these hockey players and we’re trying to figure them out,” he said.

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That goal — trying to understand his players’ mindset — never leaves the foreground for Johnson and his coaching staff.

On that Tuesday, coming off a 2-2 tie against St. Cloud State — one of only three games the Badgers failed to win in regulation all season — Johnson decided not to break down video with the team. “Look ahead,” he urged them. The coaching staff planned drills with their next opponent, the University of Minnesota Duluth, in mind. And knowing it had been a long season with the most important hockey still to come, Johnson said the team would play several mini-games to end practice on a fun — yet competitive — note.

“He wants to make (practice) the best part of their day,” said Dan Koch, an associate coach at the University of Wisconsin. “If coming to the rink feels like work, or they’re getting bored, we’re not going to get anything out of it. … He has a great feel for (what the players need).”

It’s just one of the trademarks of a coach who has built one of the greatest women’s hockey programs the sport has ever seen.

In 22 years as head coach of the Badgers, Johnson has become the winningest coach in NCAA Division I women’s hockey history and the only coach to eclipse 600 wins. No program has won more than Wisconsin’s seven national championships, all celebrated with Johnson behind the bench.

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And this year’s roster is one of the deepest and most skilled in the program’s history, with four players nominated for the 2025 Patty Kazmaier Award, given to the best women’s hockey player in the nation. The Badgers lost only one game in regulation this season — against the reigning champion Ohio State Buckeyes — and are coming off another WCHA conference title with a 4-3 win over the Minnesota Golden Gophers.

Now, the Badgers enter the NCAA Tournament, which begins on Thursday afternoon, as the No. 1 team in the nation — and the favorite to win another national title. Can they deliver on expectations?


The program’s rise to dominance begins with Johnson.

The son of legendary coach “Badger Bob” Johnson — who built the Wisconsin men’s hockey program and led the Pittsburgh Penguins to their first Stanley Cup — Mark grew up in Madison and is one of the all-time greatest players to ever suit up for the Badgers.

He’s well known for winning a gold medal at the 1980 Olympics and scoring two goals in the “Miracle on Ice” semifinal game against the Soviet Union. He went on to play 11 seasons in the NHL before retiring in 1992. By 1996, after a few high school coaching stints, Johnson was back in Madison as an assistant coach for the Badgers.

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After six years, the head coaching job opened up. Johnson applied, but the job went to one of his former teammates, Mike Eaves, instead. Johnson had a decision to make: He could continue as an assistant for one of his friends, or he could return to the NHL to work as an assistant in the top professional league.

“I had kids at the time, and had been traded a few times in the NHL,” he said. “I didn’t want to go back to that lifestyle if I had a choice.”

As it turned out, there was an opening for the upstart Wisconsin women’s hockey program that had just played its first season in 1999. At the time, the job was considered something of a risk. If Johnson left the men’s game, would he be able to cross back over?

Johnson’s desire to keep his family in Madison and run his own program won out; he was named head coach of the women’s hockey team ahead of the 2002-03 season.

“It was this leap of faith,” he said. “Like, I’m going to take this jump and I don’t know where I’m going to land.”

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At an introductory news conference, Johnson laid out his vision for the program and promised to provide stability for a team that had gone through two coaches in its first three seasons. Skeptics didn’t believe that a legendary men’s player would stick in the women’s game; they assumed Johnson would jump at the first job at a men’s program or an NHL team.

Only a few months into the job, Colorado Avalanche coach Tony Granato offered Johnson a position as an assistant, which he declined. There have been other opportunities over the years, too, but since 2002, Johnson has been all in.

Over the first few years, Johnson mostly laid the foundation of the program. He established a team-first culture and a strong, relatively simple on-ice identity.

“He’s a teacher of the game,” said Koch. “He’s somebody that feels if you can skate, pass, shoot, stick handle better than the other team, your percentages of winning are going to go up.”


Laila Edwards, who became the first Black woman to play for the U.S. women’s national team at a world championship in April 2024, said head coach Mark Johnson is “hands off, but not too hands off to a point where we’re a mess.” (Ashley Landis / AP Photo)

Johnson continued recruiting and developing the talent he had inherited, such as future Canadian Olympic defender Carla MacLeod, U.S. Olympian Molly Engstrom and Meghan Hunter, who is now an assistant GM of the Chicago Blackhawks. He also challenged the school’s administration to move the team from a community rink in the suburbs to the Kohl Center — home of the men’s hockey team — until LaBahn Arena opened in 2012.

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“He just came in and provided stability,” said assistant coach Jackie Crum. “You had this startup program and this legendary Badger came in, everyone respected him, he knows hockey, and his style of coaching just fits for a female hockey player.

“He’s not a yeller, he’s not a screamer. He’s not a swearer. He’s not berating. You watch those inside the NHL documentaries and they’re all ‘bleeps’ and ‘bleeps’ and that’s not him. Nor do I think that would work for 18- to 22-year-old females.”

The Badgers made their first NCAA tournament appearance in Johnson’s third season (2004-05), and won back-to-back national titles in 2006 and 2007 — the first DI program not in the state of Minnesota to win an NCAA women’s hockey championship.

Wisconsin quickly became a destination for elite hockey players, including future Hockey Hall of Fame inductees Meghan Duggan, Hilary Knight and Brianna Decker, who all won championships with the Badgers. It helps the Badgers that so many influential alumni have passed through the halls. Young players who look up to Knight or Duggan might want to chart the same path that leads through Madison.

But if you ask the players, it all goes back to the head coach.

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“(Mark has) built that program to where it is,” said Knight. “It’s a dynasty.”


If you get to a Badgers women’s hockey game an hour before puck drop, you’re already late. At least if you want one of the best seats in the house.

At LaBahn — with general admission seating — the die-hard fans arrive hours in advance to secure their favorite spot.

“Sometimes they get here before I do,” said Edwards.

After games, when players go to see their friends or family, they’ll mingle with the fans who are waiting in the concourse.

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“It’s the most special thing,” said captain Casey O’Brien. “It gives you something more to play for. You want to do well for them because they invest so much in us and we kind of want to pay it back.”

The Badgers have averaged the top attendance in NCAA women’s hockey this season with around 3,500 fans per game — including a massively attended double-header with the men’s team at Wrigley Field in January. Outside of the University of Minnesota, no other program’s fan base is close.

Wisconsin has hosted the six most-attended women’s college hockey games ever, including a record 15,359 at a “Fill the Bowl” game hosted at the Kohl Center in 2017.

The fan base is just one part of the Wisconsin experience. The $34 million LaBahn Arena was built to provide professional-level facilities for its sports teams. And when it was built in 2012, it was only the second women’s hockey specific rink built in the country after Ridder Arena in Minnesota.

The Wisconsin women’s hockey facility has a big locker room, training facilities, therapy pools — hot tub, cold tub and sauna — and a team lounge, which serves as a central spot for players to hang out between class and practices. Lately, the team has gotten into watching “Deal or No Deal.”

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“I don’t know why, but game shows are always on,” said O’Brien. “And we get way too into it.”

At Wisconsin, the resources match what can be expected for a Big Ten sports school that has a self-sufficient athletic department, which means it funds its operation through its own revenue rather than relying on university money. This season, the athletics budget was set at over $170 million, a record high for the department.

LaBahn is adjacent to the Kohl Center, which recently underwent around $48 million in renovations. The two buildings are connected through a series of hallways, which give players direct access to more shared facilities with the men’s hockey, basketball and volleyball teams, such as study rooms, cafeterias and a brand-new 10,000 square-foot gym.

“The facilities are second to none here,” said defender Caroline Harvey.

And then there’s the appeal of playing for a highly decorated coach whose style extends beyond his even-tempered demeanor. Wisconsin does well to recruit elite players, and Johnson allows them to shine on the ice.

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“He’s hands off, but not too hands off to a point where we’re a mess,” said Edwards. “His job, as he’s taken it on, is giving us the systems, trust and confidence and just letting us go out and play.”

That coaching style has worked well for the 2024-25 Badgers roster that is full of talent up and down the lineup.

“It plays a lot into our playing style,” said Harvey. “If he was more rigid, we’d probably be holding our sticks too tight. … You’re able to expand and grow and try new things here, and you’re not punished for that or any (mistakes).”

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Naturally, none of the 2024-25 Badgers were alive when Johnson was scoring big goals on the international stage. But it helps that his players know Johnson has “been there and done that” at every level. That Crum was in their shoes, playing for Johnson’s Badgers, helps players too, giving them an older sister figure who knows exactly what they’re going through. Not to mention, the trio of Crum, Koch and Johnson are in their 15th year coaching the program together.

“Everything that happens with the team, we’ve been there, we’ve done it,” said Crum. “We’ve been around the block. I know where they go on a Friday night because I was there once too.”


Edwards and Harvey were freshmen the first time they experienced winning at Wisconsin in 2023. Last season, the Badgers lost 1-0 to Ohio State in the championship game.

“We want to win it all,” said Harvey, now a junior. “We don’t want to be in the same position we were last year.”

The 2024-25 Badgers are the tournament favorites. They are four lines deep, with great defenders and solid goaltending. Five players have been named to the U.S. national team for the upcoming women’s world championships. And on Wednesday, three players (O’Brien, Harvey and Edwards) were announced as the finalists for the Patty Kazmaier.

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Mark Johnson, famous for his role in the “Miracle on Ice,” could win his eighth national championship with the Badgers this month. Last year, Wisconsin lost to the Ohio State Buckeyes 1-0 in the championship game. (Mark Stewart / Milwaukee Journal Sentinel / USA Today Network)

O’Brien, Edwards, Kirsten Simms and Harvey are four of the top five scorers in the NCAA. The last time the Badgers dominated the rankings like this was the 2010-11 national championship team with Duggan, Decker and Knight going 1-2-3 in scoring.

Still, Knight calls this current roster a “super team.” And coaches will agree.

“Going off of the skill, it’s probably the deepest we’ve ever been,” said Crum.

O’Brien in particular is putting together a masterful season in her final year on campus. She has scored a nation-leading 83 points in only 38 games and is the favorite to win the Patty Kazmaier Award. Last week, she had three points in the conference championship and was named player of the tournament. She also became the all-time leading scorer in Badgers hockey history (men’s or women’s) with her 269 career points.

“She’s been good for us for a long time,” said Johnson after the WCHA Final, calling her “the best player in college hockey this year by far.”

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With so much talent, the expectation for the Badgers, like most years, is to win. But Ohio State is ranked No. 2 and is building its own dynasty under head coach Nadine Muzerall, who has won two national titles in the last three years. No. 4-ranked Minnesota will have home-ice advantage as tournament host.

Some veterans on this year’s Badgers, such as Edwards and Harvey, have experienced the highs and lows of winning and losing in the final game. Others, such as O’Brien, are trying to win a third championship. And sophomores, such as Cassie Hall or Kelly Gorbatenko, will try to erase the sting of a loss.

“They’re on a mission,” said Johnson.

If the team wins, it will be Johnson’s eighth national championship and his fourth in six seasons. He said he’s still motivated by the challenge of building and coaching winning rosters, especially this year.

“The team is talented, it’s deep, but how do you keep them hungry? How do you keep them motivated?” he wondered. “Those types of challenges are why I get up and enjoy coming to the rink.”

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There will come a time when Johnson won’t be at the rink to run a practice or stand behind the bench. He doesn’t know exactly when he’ll retire, but he has been considering what the next chapter of his life might look like.

Johnson and his wife, Leslie, are planning to open a therapeutic horse ranch in Verona, a suburb of Madison. The couple, who have been married for over 40 years, hope it can be a place of healing for children and families.

For now though, Johnson’s focus is on the path to winning another national championship. As the No. 1 seed, the Badgers won’t play on the opening day of the tournament on Thursday, but will await their Saturday afternoon opponent for the regional final.

With a win — against the winner of Clarkson vs. Boston University — the Badgers will head to their third straight Frozen Four, which begins March 21 in Minneapolis.

“We definitely have the group to win,” said Edwards. “But it doesn’t mean we’re going to. There’s still work to be done.”

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(Illustration: Dan Goldfarb / The Athletic; Gil Talbot / NCAA Photos / Getty, Dave Kallmann / Milwaukee Journal Sentinel / USA Today Network via Imagn Images)

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Book Review: ‘Care and Feeding,’ by Laurie Woolever; ‘Cellar Rat,’ by Hannah Selinger

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Book Review: ‘Care and Feeding,’ by Laurie Woolever; ‘Cellar Rat,’ by Hannah Selinger

The chief executive of the BLT restaurant group is “Jewish and kept kosher and he loved to show up at the restaurant with a wad of bills so thick it actually hurt to watch him.” The food guide pioneer Tim Zagat is, without explanation, “rotund, grotesque.” It’s the early aughts and Williamsburg, Brooklyn, is repulsive, the farm-to-table movement a sham, and Colleen, a manager at Bar Americain with “straight and oily” hair who fires Selinger for texting during work, “the kind of restaurant lifer who hated people like me — newbies, people who fit in seamlessly for no good reason.”

“Cellar Rat” feels at times like a charmless mix of Joris-Karl Huysmans, M.F.K. Fisher and Regina George. A blurb describes the book as “brutally honest,” but there’s a thin line between brutal honesty and glib brutality. These are lessons I wish Selinger could have had a chance to pick up from Tony Bourdain, and ones Woolever certainly did.

Selinger’s foundational trauma is a problematic sexual encounter with the pastry chef Johnny Iuzzini. She renders the episode in explicit, outraged detail but also with a frustrating veil of vagueness.

The difficulty for the reader, however sympathetic, is that the incident doesn’t occur until halfway through the book, by which point our outrage meter has been somewhat decalibrated by so much relentless flippancy — and if this is what cemented or changed her attitudes, that’s not clear, either.

To make matters more confusing, each chapter ends on a recipe. For instance, “Chapter 5: Fourplay,” which contains the Iuzzini episode, finishes with a recipe for Bittersweet Chocolate Cream Pie. It’s not quite as bad as Batali’s mea culpa with accompanying recipe for pizza dough cinnamon rolls, but it’s equally baffling.

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Unbelievably, Selinger ends her book by dedicating it to the people of Gaza. “This book is yours too,” she writes. But, quite frankly, I doubt they would want it.

CARE AND FEEDING: A Memoir | By Laurie Woolever | Ecco | 342 pp. | $28.99

CELLAR RAT: My Life in the Restaurant Underbelly | By Hannah Selinger | Little, Brown | 294 pp. | $29

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