Maybe those of us who were too cool for debate club bear some of the blame for the current state of U.S. social discourse. We missed a wonderful opportunity to learn how to discuss issues in a meaningful way.

A new study says that middle- and high school students who belong to debate clubs tend to be better at critical thinking (a much-needed skill) and after graduation, those students are more likely to attend college.

But the rest of us? We appear to have lost — if we ever possessed — the ability to engage in civil discussions. If you tuned in to Fox for last week’s Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis/California Gov. Gavin Newsom televised debate/rumble, you probably walked away disappointed. I tuned in and was reminded that just because there’s a circus in town doesn’t mean I have to buy a ticket. Then, too, if you appoint Sean Hannity as moderator of a debate that covered topics such as homelessness, taxes, immigration and abortion, you should keep expectations low. Of course, this was a political debate, so our expectations weren’t very high in the first place. Political debate is theater and the news coverage mostly keeps track of who dominated what conversation, with bonus points if you humiliate your opponent.

At least the fact-checkers earned their paychecks that night, and bless them.

This may be patently unfair, but compare last week’s performance (“You’re a liar,” “No, YOU are”) with the 1858 Lincoln/Douglas debates. Republican Abraham Lincoln and incumbent U.S. Sen. Stephen Douglas (a Democrat) went head to head in a series of seven debates about the most controversial issue of their time — slavery and the expansion thereof. The stakes were high and what ended up being 21 hours of debate set the tone of other debates that would drive policy.

You can read the transcripts of the debates — which were later published in a book. The language includes such gems as Lincoln’s imploring that “A house divided against itself cannot stand,” which he borrowed from a Christian scripture (Matthew 12:25) people would have recognized.

The debates helped send Douglas (who argued that territories should decide whether to allow slavery) back to Washington, but it put the nation on notice that Lincoln was a politician who bore watching, and it reminded the populace that the debate about slavery wasn’t going away.

Compare that to select statements from last week’s show:

“…one thing, in closing, that we have in common is that neither of us will be the nominee for our party in 2024.” — Gavin Newsom

“You have the freedom to defecate in public in California.” — Ron DeSantis

“I don’t want to be the hall monitor. Please don’t turn me into that.” — Sean Hannity.

Who won? Who cares? That was not debate. It was an online argument read aloud as bad spoken word poetry.

In fact, these days, most debates exist entirely on social media. They go thus:

• Someone posts something controversial and often unlinked to reality
• A second party refutes the post
• Name-calling ensues
• Someone mutes or blocks their “debate” partner

And that’s it, a very modern and useless exercise in which we risk and learn nothing. Since social media is not the venue for serious debate, let’s consider moving back to real-live, face-to-face conversations with debate clubs. Our democracy is hungry for it.

So: Resolved: In-person debate clubs for grown-ups shall be organized in every Connecticut town starting in the new year. Attendance isn’t mandatory, but there will be door prizes. We need to learn (or relearn) how to talk to people with whom we don’t agree.

Last week, we went to an area library to listen to a Connecticut College professor talk about Palestine, as in how we got here. This was no debate, per se, but there was a lot of information shared by a credible source. From the questions afterward, it was obvious there was some disagreement, but the conversation remained respectful and fruitful. We were face to face, after all, and though we continually find ourselves learning new social norms, calling someone an idiot to his/her/their face remains rude.

We drove home excited to have been out in public (like during Before Times) to participate in a real-life talk about an important issue. It felt like a throwback. It felt necessary. It felt great. I’d be willing to argue for a debate club for adults, though I probably wouldn’t do so effectively. Maybe I can hire a young debater, who would most likely know best.

Susan Campbell is the author of “Frog Hollow: Stories from an American Neighborhood,” “Tempest-Tossed: The Spirit of Isabella Beecher Hooker” and “Dating Jesus: A Story of Fundamentalism, Feminism and the American Girl.” She is Distinguished Lecturer at the University of New Haven, where she teaches journalism.

Some Dallas City Council members say as the sale of the Dallas Mavericks looms, the city should start working now to prevent the NBA franchise from leaving.

Members of the council’s ad hoc committee on pro sports recruitment and retention say that includes being open to a new arena for the team and some are prepared to get behind the vision of a connected casino-resort in Dallas.

“We need to keep the ‘Dallas’ in the Dallas Mavericks, and I think this is an opportunity to have those talks sooner rather than later,” said council member Paula Blackmon.

Last week, Mavericks owner Mark Cuban said he is selling a majority stake in the team to the family that runs the Las Vegas Sands casino and resort company. Cuban would maintain operational control of the franchise but would give up his role of majority stakeholder.

The company is controlled by billionaire Miriam Adelson, widow of casino mogul Sheldon Adelson, and would make up the first principal owners in team history who are not North Texans. The deal still needs to be finalized and approved by the NBA Board of Governors.

Cuban told The Dallas Morning News in an email late Monday that he “can’t really say anything right now” regarding the team sale. But he was adamant about the team staying in the city.

“I will say on the record the team is not moving anywhere,” Cuban said. “We are the DALLAS Mavs.”

Cuban told The News in December 2022 that he hoped to team with Las Vegas Sands to build an arena in the middle of a resort and casino in Dallas. But Texas would have to legalize gambling first.

“Texas is such an amazing state that we need to be a destination. And this is the way to do it,” Cuban said then. “And partnering with the Sands Corporation, literally there’s no reason why we can’t build a huge resort destination in the city proper of Dallas. There’s plenty of places to do it.”

The Mavericks share the American Airlines Center with the NHL’s Dallas Stars. Officials with the Stars say they want their team to stay at the arena for the foreseeable future. The lease agreements for the Mavericks and the Stars at the arena expire in July 2031.

A new arena

Five council members on the seven-member pro sports committee said they knew of no talk of the Mavericks considering a move out of the city nor any plans for a new arena.

Council members Blackmon, Zarin Gracey and Jesse Morenosaid they would consider a new arena for the team, but differed on how it should be financed. Gracey, the committee’s chair, and Blackmon said they are not opposed to at least some of it being backed by taxpayer money, but both said they would need to know the terms before signing off on anything.

“I don’t want to end up in another situation like we had when the Cowboys were considering Fair Park,” said Gracey, referring to when the Dallas Cowboys expressed interest in moving from the Texas Stadium in Irving to build a new $650 million stadium in Dallas’ Fair Park in 2004. The team ultimately ended negotiations with Dallas County over not agreeing on a vision for the new stadium, which would have included $425 million in public money. The Cowboys moved to AT&T Stadium in Arlington.

“We should do what the voters want,” Gracey said. “But within reason, I think we should try to do what we can to keep the Mavs here.”

Moreno said he would support a funding method similar to the American Airlines Center. Dallas voters in 1998 approved $140 million in bonds to be paid by hotel and rental car taxes. The surrounding area was also redeveloped.

“I would prefer something similar to how we’ve used it before,” said Moreno, whose district includes the American Airlines Center. “But I believe that the Mavericks are also capable of doing this on their own.”

Council members Omar Narvaez and Jaynie Schultz said they thought it was too early to be talking about new venues for the NBA team.

“I think it’s premature to even start thinking about that,” said Narvaez. “There would be a lot of detail that would have to go into something like building a new arena.”

Mayor Eric Johnsonand council member Jaime Resendez, two other committee members, didn’t respond to requests for comment.

The committee was created by Johnson in May 2022 in the aftermath of his publicly calling for a second North Texas NFL franchise that would play in Dallas. Cowboys owner Jerry Jones rejected the idea and it has gained little traction outside of discussion on social media.

The committee is meant to come up with ways to bring more pro sports franchises and events to the city, as well as keep existing ones.

The committee has met only once, in September 2022. Among the topics they discussed at the time were the economic impact of the American Airlines Center and an overview of the Dallas Open Tennis Tournament.

Tournament officials announced on Nov. 29 that the event will be moving to The Star in Frisco starting in 2025.

Johnson announced Gracey as the new chair of the ad hoc council committee in August.

In a statement last Wednesday, the two families that head the Las Vegas Sands Corp. said they hope to close the Mavs sale by the end of December.

Lexi Schuchert, director of communications advisory firm TrailRunner International, which has represented the families, declined to comment on whether they would pursue a new arena and if they want to keep the team in Dallas.

“Think big and bold and see if it will work.”

Gracey said he intends for the ad hoc committee to meet again early next year, and that the Mavericks and the Dallas Open could be topics up for discussion.

He said he believes if the city opts to move forward with a new arena where the Mavericks would play, that it should be near the downtown convention center. The city is in the midst of planning for the estimated nearly $3 billion tear down and rebuild of the Kay Bailey Hutchison Convention Center. Gracey said he believed it would “change the landscape of downtown Dallas” to add a Mavericks arena and a possible casino resort to ongoing convention center plans, along with others to renovate the existing convention center arena and to redevelop the area.

“That’s a national recognition type of development, to me,” said Gracey, noting that it could be the key piece of a new walkable, entertainment district running from The Cedars up to near City Hall and including the AT&T Discovery District. “We’re already excited about what a new convention center could do, but I think if you add those other components to it, it adds another layer of entertainment to the area.”

Blackmon said she believes all options should be on the table with redevelopment of the convention center area now that a new arena could be in play.

“I think we should look at the whole area’s land use and not be restricted by X, Y, or Z,” she said. “Think big and bold and see if it will work.”

She said the city should start planning for a potential arena and casino resort combo so they aren’t starting from zero if state laws change. She also said she believed the city should keep engaging in discussions with the NBA, Cuban and the Adelsons on what they would need to keep partnering with the city.

“If I was a surrounding city, I would see all of this as a door cracking open, so I would try to put my foot in it,” Blackmon said. “And what we as a city need to do is make sure that we do not shut the door on those communications and conversations with the people that make these decisions.”

Moreno said he would want to first see if the team is open to remaining at the American Airlines Center in the future. He mentioned recent $20 millions in upgrades to the venue, including a new $10 million video board.

“We’re going to have to ensure that we are looking at this holistically and that we are planning on what American Airlines Center looks like five, 10, 15 years down the road,” Moreno said. “I think it still has life left in it. I believe that the AAC is still one of the most significant arenas around the country and that it’s one of the most beautiful architecturally sound arenas that we have.”

Schultz said she believed that there were other areas of the city a new arena could also go. She pointed to the International District in North Dallas, an area she represents, and spots in southern Dallas such as near the University of North Texas – Dallas campus. Hundreds of single-family homes, thousands of apartments and more than a million square feet of commercial space across 270 acres are also planned for the area.

Schultz said she believed the Mavericks organization would give Dallas a fair opportunity to fight for them to stay if they were considering leaving the city. She said she believed the variety of locations and the size of Dallas make it the most viable option.

“I don’t know how many acres they would need, but we have it and could make it happen for sure,” Schultz said. “There are several locations in the city of Dallas that would be a terrific fit with accessible highways, DART lines and centrally located to the fan base, and that is something that none of the suburbs have.”

MIAMI GARDENS, Fla. – Three people were airlifted to Jackson Memorial Hospital’s Ryder Trauma Center Tuesday morning after being involved in a crash in Miami Gardens, Miami-Dade Fire Rescue officials confirmed.

The crash, possibly involving a police officer, occurred in the area of Northwest 27th Avenue and 167th Street.

Sky 10 was above the scene around 6 a.m. and spotted a white SUV in the area with extensive damage to its front and driver’s side.

No details about the crash were immediately released by police.

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